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Seahawk 08-22-2019 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by BK911 (Post 10567273)
I guess he could have been FOS, but he came across as genuine and had quite a few cool stories.
He was sitting there pretty quiet minding his own business until I started chatting with him, and only talked loud because he was hard of hearing.

Could be legit but I doubt it.

"Talked about how he kept getting in trouble because he shot "any gook that he saw", even if some were on our side. "Only way to be sure was to kill em!""

Never happened...pure fantasy. He would have been relieved. Shot. The relieved again. Then shot again.

Sorry.

Back on topic:

I always, if the line allows, engage counter folks and drive through window people in a respectful, engaging way. I also tip, round up the tab to the next dollar then add one dollar or two, depending.

I have a soft spot in my heart for kids working the windows.

sammyg2 08-22-2019 01:12 PM

I went to an event a while ago and the parking lot attendant started giving directions to the car in front of us. That lead into a lengthy conversation.
And what made it worse was watching at least a dozen or so cars in the other line pass by smoothly and efficiently while gladys and bertha had a good chat.
No telling how long that would have continued if I hadn't intervened if you know what I mean.
They were butt-hurt, I was pissed, as was the long line of people behind us.

If they're going to charge me $22 to park in a lot for a couple-three hours, the least they could do is not hire people like that to take my $$$$$.

monoflo 08-22-2019 02:17 PM

at some point everyone new is a stranger -- So a little conversation never hurts.. Actually surprising if one engages another person how many times it can be interesting and rewarding.

Of course from time to time it goes no where ---- but WTF,
Flo

WPOZZZ 08-22-2019 02:39 PM

Talking to strangers can get you killed. Choose the most dangerous one.

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pmax 08-22-2019 03:10 PM

Strangers not giving a f*ck. Everyone except one dude just keeps walking and talking on the phone.

WTH.

https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/news/it-was-awful-man-dies-after-malfunctioning-manhattan-elevator-crushes-him

Baz 08-22-2019 04:41 PM

I strike up convos ALL THE TIME with people in public places that I have NEVER ever laid eyes on before.

Last night at WM in the produce section there was a guy wearing a shirt with "Syracuse" on it in sports font (representing the university's logo).

I said "You guys better beat Clemson this year!" with a smile on my face.

Long story short - the guy introduced himself and his chick to me and shook my hand about 5 times before we parted company and had a good convo about sports in general and turns out he played pro ball with both the Bills and Raiders for short period of time.

In this case, it was just like Glen seeing another dude with something on their shirt worth a quick discussion.

You never know where these convos will lead but in all my years I've never had a bad experience.

The best part is seeing a smile come over someone's face when you say the right thing.

Life is a trip....enjoy the ride! :)

dafischer 08-22-2019 06:16 PM

My wife and I do it all the time. On vacations, we'll usually get involved in conversations with strangers we meet in restaurants and drinking establishments, and we've always had a lot of fun. It doesn't hurt that both of us are extroverts. Around home, when we're out in the Porsche on the weekend, we'll usually wind up in conversations with strangers we meet in restaurants and drinking establishments (See a trend here?). Hell, our best friends are a couple we met in our local bar, over 30 years ago.

Por_sha911 08-22-2019 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by seahawk (Post 10567214)
noisy veterans with hats are generally fos...quiet vets with hats generally are not; vets without hats that are quiet are the real deal.

+100

Baz 08-22-2019 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by dafischer (Post 10567697)
-snip-Hell, our best friends are a couple we met in our local bar, over 30 years ago.

I thought I was your best friend.....:(

dafischer 08-23-2019 04:08 AM

It might take a few drinks. :D

KFC911 08-23-2019 04:24 AM

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Originally Posted by dafischer (Post 10567958)
It might take a few drinks. :D

After a few....I might get "chatty"... but...

dafischer - Can I by the first round?
Me - Mind yer own damn bidness....can't you see I've got a lawn ;)?

speeder 08-23-2019 01:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Seahawk (Post 10567214)
Noisy veterans with hats are generally FOS...quiet vets with hats generally are not; vets without hats that are quiet are the real deal.

Sorry.

No one who fought in Korea uses the term, "gook". My father fought in Korea and earned a Bronze Star. The word "gook" never crossed his lips, or his friends, who were bad to the bone.

When I fly I am always on chatty alert, especially on long hauls after a tough week: I'll talk about anything until wheels are in the well after take-off. After that, talk to the noise cancelling headphones.

Sorry.

Word. Here’s a recent photo of my “big brother” that I’ve talked about before. 6’4” Marine who spent his 19th Birthday in VN, (1969-70), 68 years old in photo. No loud stories, (no quiet ones either), no ethnic slurs, ever, etc...

I knew him for 30 years before he told me his USMC story and getting shipped off to war once on a long car ride in SoCal. We drove past where he lived off-base and he just opened up and I shut up. 30 years.

Such a kind person but there is a badass underneath that almost no one knows about. :)


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speeder 08-23-2019 01:01 PM

Oh yeah, I talk to strangers all the time but depends on time/place/mood. :)


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