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Originally Posted by Rawknees'Turbo
(Post 11454540)
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Jeff, the "not like us" deal is absolutely true, and it begins to appear at a very early age. Anyone that spends a decent amount of time working in an urban middle school setting learns to spot the true "animals" with ease, and let me tell you, almost nothing is done about it except to shuffle them along, as you noted. I don't know what the answer is, but the steady and persistent softening of how we deal with the genuine beasts among us, including the budding beasts, is not working.
It is difficult to put an exact number on it, but for each year that I worked in Dallas ISD, out of an average of 100 students per year on my roster, at least five of them (sometimes more), per year, I could basically guarantee would grow to become thieves, murders and sexual predators - no joke.
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Or, worse yet, MMA fans. There's just no helping some of them.
In all seriousness, though, I have only met one young man during my entire life that I thought I "recognized" as bound for this path. He had three completely normal sisters, all of whom are grown, married with children, and pursuing successful careers. This kid is now in his mid 20's. He has been in some form of incarceration almost continuously since his late adolescent years. There was just something about him, couldn't put my finger on it, but my wife saw it as well.
And this kid grew up in a "loving" household. Plenty of attention, from two parents. The whole "nature vs nurture" question gets asked a lot when we see people who turn out like this. Well, with this one, it was definitely "nature". I cannot imagine how bad he would be without the "nurture". I'm sure our perp in the video failed in both regards.
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Originally Posted by tdw28210
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I just hope NOBODY suggests that we start holding the parents accountable as these young citizens matriculate their way through the educational system and society at large. I mean the parent(s) are victims too, right? Can we REALLY expect them to take a proactive role to set a good example, nip poor and/or anti-social behavior in the bud and shield them from poisonous media? That sounds like it would consume a lot of their time, virtually every day. It's just much better for them to let the "professionals" in the school and law enforcement agencies figure it out. I personally would cringe at the idea of a parent standing before a judge while they are given punishment along side their felonious 12 year old.
^^that's in green if it isn't obvious.
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I know you are being facetious, but let's go ahead and use what you said to add some perspective.
Your approach would work with what most of us consider "normal" parents, with parents that fit our paradigm of parenting. Parents who are taking an active interest in their children, or a somewhat active interest (I'm including a very broad spectrum in that). Parents who are still capable of being embarrassed by their children's behavior, and capable of being "punished" in some way along with them. Parents with something to lose, with some "skin in the game". Parents who more or less understand the score.
Well, this guy's parents ain't none of that. His dad (who is probably dead already as well) was just like him. I'm sure this guy had fathered many children, has no idea who and where any of them are - just like his dad. His mom is some exceedingly low IQ welfare rat who never once read to him - she neither knows how nor can be bothered to take the time. You could drag her in front of the criminal justice system (and I'm sure she is no stranger anyway) for her children's crimes, but she would have no understanding of what was happening, or why, or what to do about it.
These animals are physically equipped to make more of themselves, as they continue to demonstrate. They are not, however, intellectually equipped, nor emotionally equipped to raise them as modern society expects human children to be raised. It's a self perpetuating cycle that I'm not sure we, as the rest of society, have the emotional fortitude to break. We're doomed to having these violent animals living among us, as we continue to take half measures in dealing with them all the while pretending that if we just
care enough they can be shown a path towards being "just like us". We will never acknowledge that there are those simply incapable of following that path.