The 3 second rule - Lessons from "Alfie Solomons"
 

Goofy video but there is some really good information if you're so inclined.

(This thread is aimed at our younger members. Paid ad 6.30 onward's)

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Peter.

Peter.

I love you like you are my brother.

But that's a load of ****.



Or.

Sorry. You're the last person on earth I'd want to upset.

Thanks Bill but I'm not offended... As I wrote it's a"Goofy video" but IMO the information is good.
- Especially for a younger guy who is still trying to find his place in the world.

I've been ****ed over many times in my life and looking back it's because "they" thought I was an easy mark.
- I thought maybe I could save a younger person some pain?

Anyway, how about this one? Any better?

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Sorry, not original. My Italian friend says that all the time. It's his 3 second rule to get the upper hand in an argument.

The next one. Yes, I've seen that. LOL I like those self defence youtubes, some VERY good ideas.

Big Maori guy just down the road who is into bullying everyone, and made life hell for my GF, is good for practicing things like the 3 second rule, stance etc, because body language pours off him. He doesn't realise how stupid he is. Me being of Scottish descent, we haven't forgiven anyone is 600 years, so it became my hobby to make like hell for him as a form of punishment LOL

Yes "not original" but young guys & gals need skills.

Anyway... More than 25 years ago I had a "difficult neighbor". I did my best to understand were he was coming from but he made the mistake of being disrespectful to my then wife. Not long after that he soon found that he had to move.

I wont go into details but there are lots of ways to make someone feel uncomfortable.
(FWIW I wasn't proud of what I did but no one messes with "The Misses" and he should've known that.)

Haha, good skills.