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Presents meant more when we were poor
My next-door neighbor brought his motorcycle over today to have me do some work on it. He was admiring my two stand up rollaround tool chests. He commented that I had any tool a person could ever want. It got me to thinking about when I was first married, and we didn’t have much money. The few tools I had I carried around in a canvas bag. One year for Christmas my wife got me a small JCPenney toolbox. She must have secretly saved up for it. I thought it was the greatest thing ever. I remember getting my canvas tool bag out and transferring everything into that small toolbox. I didn’t have much and there was plenty of room left over. 45 years later, I still have that toolbox. I don’t keep much in it, it’s pretty beat up and it usually hangs out under my workbench. But it’s a present that I will always remember opening up on Christmas day.
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Nice story, Kurt! I'd like to think there was a little bit of mentoring going on there. ;)
Back in the 60's, my parents got both my brother and I each a Craftsman tool box w/tools. I still have my box and will post a pic of it when I get a chance. I still have those tools too. Things are certainly different now in so many ways. I treasure the memories I have growing up and am humbled to have had such good parents. |
Great story and excellent observation.
Now, unless the present is something I couldn't find and really wanted, it is a nice gesture but I could have just bought whatever it is myself. Exception in 2002 my darling bride said to me "You've been wanting a Porsche. Why don't you start looking now?" I had been dreaming of getting a Carrera for 14 years but wanted to be debt free first. We hit that goal a year or two earlier. She made it so I wouldn't feel guilty spending 'that kind of money' on a toy. That is love. |
Early on, my wife and I were pretty darn poor. We had a signal that money was tight: we didn’t buy pickles. A pickle is never a mandatory item. And when we didn’t have pickles, we did without most other discretionary items as well.
It was almost fun being poor. Certainly a game or challenge. (And sex was a no-cost way to have fun) |
I have a couple rolling cabinets & tool chests now, but I still have, and use, the secondhand fishing tackle box and set of Sears Craftsman open end wrenches my grandfather gave me for my 18th birthday (58 years ago).
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For his college graduation present, I gave my nephew a collection of spare tools I had. Screwdrivers/wrenches/sockets. His father was never a mechanic. I called my gift as mentoring, but all you can do is lead the horse to water.,,,,,,,,
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After watching me make 20 trips to and from the garage when fixing things in the house, my kids got me this for Christmas about 5 years ago. Has made my life so much easier! Highly recommended!
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Kurt, I started driving in 1970. I started begging for tools. specific tools, mostly from Sears for every birthday and Christmas. I finally bought a red toolbox from Sears about like the one you show. It is now relegated to my "plumbing" box and I have my plumbing tools in it. I try hard to avoid plumbing duty, but I know just where it is, and what is in it.
I have another box about that size that was my FIL's AC repair kit and all my automotive AC tools except the gauge set and vacuum pump is in there. |
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Of all the material items I have, I think I value the tools passed down to me from my Dad (and his Dad) the most. Quote:
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Yeah man, family heirloom tools. They literally do not make them like that anymore.
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Even in later years my dad gave me various tools as Christmas or Birthday presents. When I use one of them, I think of him. The vice on my workbench is a bit smaller than I would really prefer, but it belonged to my maternal grandfather, and it was the only tools he had that I wanted, as he did very little mechanical work.
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Nice to be loved.
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