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Rikao4 03-18-2009 02:15 PM

invite you HS friend, her, dad for dinner..
Dad can be proud of his babe,
your friend can amuse everyone with tales from the darkside..
you amuse everyone with what you would do to someone who messes with your tribe..
babe should slink out like the hoe she is..

pics please..
Rika

Seahawk 03-18-2009 02:24 PM

Great post, John...seems like you get your perspective from your Dad:cool:

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Originally Posted by jshape (Post 4552338)
My mom died four years ago at 85 - my dad is now 88. He remarried a very nice younger (82) woman about 1-1/2 years after mom died. His new wife is very nice and they do seem to get on quite well together. They have travelled quite a bit and are very happy.

When this subject of his remarriage first came up, I asked why did he feel he needed to remarry - he was 84 and able to drive at night! He could have as much company as he wanted in the retirement community.

But, he indicated that he really loved his new paramour and felt that getting married was the only right thing to do. They wouldn't even stay in the same room when the visited us at our cottage even though they were engaged. He told me that they ahd planned on staying in different hotel rooms on the way up from Florida but that the cost of getting two rooms was ridiculous. But they did get separate beds! Likewise, we put them in different rooms when they stayed with us.

Dad was totally against the thought of living together from a personal moral standpoint. He refused to even discuss it. Seems like his generation is a bit more put off by cohabitation than are current generations.

Financially, they have separate accounts but like many of their age today, the market has forced them to look at things more jointly than they did a few years ago. My guess is that if most of their finances will be used in supporting them. I'm totally fine with that. I'm just glad they're happy.

I called him last month to chat - new wifey answered the phone and indicated that they were right in the middle of duplicate bridge group and could I maybe call back later? That maybe was the best "gift" I ever got - my 88 year old dad was too busy doing something on his own that he enjoyed doing rather than waiting by the phone 24/7 to chat about the weather or whatever with his son!


HardDrive 03-18-2009 03:59 PM

So what you guys are saying is that I could flash a little money around, and score with lots of 75 year olds women?

I like where this is going....

http://www.hollywoodstandups.com/images/quagmire.jpg

Rick Lee 03-18-2009 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by HardDrive (Post 4552516)
So what you guys are saying is that I could flash a little money around, and score with lots of 75 year olds women?

I know plenty of GILF's.

asphaltgambler 03-19-2009 05:08 AM

Trust me one this one.................................pics are not needed. Funny thing is my dad has a very modest estate except for his house. My parents did have a a pretty chunk of assets a few years back in the mid 80's but lost a substantial portion when the savings and loan debacle hit.

I really think that most of these women believe he has a couple-o-mil just stashed in the freezer................he doesn't. Another woman who lives next door (with-in walking distance) is a widow, slightly younger than he, very wealthy, somewhat attractive, but he never talks about or is interested in hittin that........

vash 03-19-2009 07:02 AM

i dont know much about the topic, but explore options to protect his assets, and let the old coot "work his magic". at 88, i could only hope i can pull some 70something hotties.

it's good to feel alive.

T77911S 03-19-2009 07:54 AM

we kinda have the same thing going on with our mom. she does not have a lot of money. she has a boyfriend now, which takes her time so she is not always bugging my brother. we have control of the retirement and the house so he cant get much. he seems very shady, definately a cheap SOB. we dont know much about his history. it was shocking how much she changed when my dad died.

Chocaholic 03-21-2009 06:02 AM

Hard for any of us to understand what a senior citizen goes through when they lose a spouse of many decades. . .especially with the knowledge that the clock is ticking quickly. Loneliness can be a prison. Money is no longer important. Companionship at any price becomes preferential to spending your last few years waking up alone.

Ease up and forget about your inheritance. Let the old man have fun and enjoy his last few years. Sheesh.

azasadny 03-21-2009 06:44 AM

My father is a healthy 72 and he has all of the women he could want. He's financially secure, which seems to appeal to women in this age range. He likes dating and having fun, but I don't know if he'll get remarried.

asphaltgambler 03-23-2009 07:28 AM

So this past sat. dad was back at the ranch finally. We set up help 24x7 for him through a service for elder care. They are bonded, insured and have a good rep. If things progess we will trim that schedule to just days. He is doing well. So far so good.

He was not in the house for more than an hour when one of the women (the one who duped the other older guy on his will) was f***ing knocking on the door. Then she strolled in pulled a chair and began what sounded like 'baby talk'.........................UGH

Short time later the other HO calls him on the phone, which I answer and anounces that she will coming up in a few weeks to ' take care ' of him. I tell her we already have help.....she says that she will help too. I say we don't need anymore help that we have it handled. She says she's coming up anyway............................................ .

UUUUUUUUGH !!!

nostatic 03-23-2009 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Chocaholic (Post 4558232)
Hard for any of us to understand what a senior citizen goes through when they lose a spouse of many decades. . .especially with the knowledge that the clock is ticking quickly. Loneliness can be a prison. Money is no longer important. Companionship at any price becomes preferential to spending your last few years waking up alone.

Ease up and forget about your inheritance. Let the old man have fun and enjoy his last few years. Sheesh.

That has been my take. The only caveat is to make sure the partner treats them well. Luckily my dad's new wife seems to treat him really well...so any money "lost" is actually quite well spent imho. I'm certainly not able to wake up next to him every morning :eek:

WolfeMacleod 03-23-2009 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by vash (Post 4553624)
i dont know much about the topic, but explore options to protect his assets, and let the old coot "work his magic". at 88, i could only hope i can pull some 70something hotties.

it's good to feel alive.

Got's friend who's about 86 now and still hitting the 30's. And wearing them out. Without the lil blue pill.
I aim to be like him :D


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