Well, I'm not miserable, if that's what you mean.

barely making ends meet right now, but i am happy. my 13 yr old daughter has 2 horses. it makes me happy to see her ride, sometimes i even get on a horse with her, she gets 9-1-1 ready on her phone first.
my wife has her own buisiness that makes her happy, even though it is not making money yet, and i have God in my life. so yea, i am very happy.

the last guitar player in my band was quite different from the rest of us. you might say we are kinda nerdy guys compared to him. he use to have long hair,(well, i did to at one time) and hung out with pretty rough guys. he was talking to me one day and said i was lucky and he could not figure out why i was so happy and content. after several very long discussions it came down to God and my family makes me happy. i dont have to have all the toys to be content. seeing my daughters face when she is taking care of the horses or riding does it for me.
if someone on the outside can see it, there must be something there.