Sure am Jim.... :D


Isn't that how old your hottie step daughters are...

Step dtrs? I don't have any 18 y.o. step dtrs...on the other hand there are two women who think they are 29 that come around and forage when they're not off to college. WHO ARE these strange creatures???? LOL

Sid....you've got an old soul. It's Friday afternoon...why aren't you partying and lining up trim for the weekend? Damn whippersnapper.;)

Not much of a partier Jim... I wish I could line up some trim but I don't seem to have much luck with that....

So wait, the relationship is over but you're saying that it can work? :D

I know a few people who have made the distance thing work. It is the exception, with the problem being that most people think, "oh, it'll be different for us...we love each other *so* much."

A long distance relationship is not real. Real is when you have to wake up next to that person every day. Spending hours on the phone or on skype or im is all...digital bs.

Todd, It was very real for the first 6mos or so that she was away.... Then things started to change as I got close to starting college... It could have worked had she felt that she could trust me. I wouldn't have cheated on her but she is convinced I would(temptation was there only b/c she wouldn't put out).... Anyways all of that combined with the distance was enough... Like I said it would work with someone that is not a mistrusting beyotch.

I'm about to give you a tough life lesson, Sid...IF you were giving her no reason to distrust you and she starts accusing you, she was either stepping out on you or was seriously thinking about it. It's called deflection and women are masters at it.

Now....go find something fun and collegiate to do this weekend....maybe a grad student who wants to live out a boy toy fantasy.

We've been doing this for 3 years. She used to goto college in NOLA, 14 (?) some hours from here. I wouldn't see her for months at a time. We kinda drifted apart. But after a certain amount of time we just couldn't stand not talking or seeing each other, and when she's come home over spring break or summer we'd be inseparable, and we would see each other every day we could.

And then I'd go back to my research and schooling and she'd go back to med school and we'd be back to not hearing from each other. Not because we would get tired of each other, but because we are just both so ridiculously busy.

It's getting tough not seeing her ofter again and she told me that last time we spoke. I'm calling her tonight and making plans to go see her.

I've failed at so many long term relationships (my x-wife laster 2 years and that was hell by the end, but the blame there was 50/50) I just really want this to happen.

She's so ridiculously perfect for me- that's the reason I'm having a hard time just letting this one go and going back to banging the party girls whos numbers are in my phone under descriptive names like "Jen Red Hair Mojitos" and "Brittany Dress Met At Steves"

Jim that is seriously what I started thinking... One reason I GTFO...


I would love to bag a grad student...

The grad student population at my school here is about 50% Indian students. Some of those Indian girls can be pretty hot...

All of the grad students here are Pharmacy... Its a mix on the hotness...

"Friend noted that she's an extremely busy woman, working a job while attending, and thats all rather stressful. The friend made the comment that it's ridiculous how we are the same person and how yes, yes indeed we were perfect for each other... but time and fate just aren't on our side."

If your relationship was important to her she would have stayed. Chicks move away from or for a relationship all the time. This is a clear signal of her level of interest. The above comment is her friends nice way of saying "move on". Similar to "it's not you, it's me". Good luck.

But they always have the best dope....

Sorry, not real. LDRs are a creation of convenience - allowing a person to feel like they are "in a relationship" with very little investment. And your response to the whole thing helps illustrate the point.

Wash. U.?

Reason I asked if she was from St. Louis, I remember hearing several years ago that one of those teenager/boy magazines like Maxim or FHM or the like did an article rating US cities on how difficult their women are to pick up. Figures, Stl women topped the list........ :rolleyes:
Now after having traveled to a great many of this country's major cities, I have no reason to doubt their findings. They said something like "If you can pick up in St. Louis, you can pick up anywhere...."

Sid, you are young, and you're smart. Yeah, she hurt you, but remember, she meant a lot to you at one time.. If I could give you some free advice, try to even out the highs and lows in your relationships. Name calling and finger pointing at this point will not do you any good at all, it will only make you more cynical.
AMHIK. :(

Ok that does sound rougher than I meant it. For the record I broke up with her.... My point there was that if the trust is there it has a better shot than I did....

I go to Missouri S&T, formerly University Missouri - Rolla.

The ratio male-to-female here is 3 or 4 to 1.... It's an engineering school. It's famous for being a meat party.

I do plenty good with scoring to good ones here.... So I'm fairly confident that I can do so anywheres.

Now I know you're lying, UMR has absolutely no women enrolled whatsoever, it's well known and an absolute sausage-fest :)

Sid, just remember hotness can be just a light switch away. In the dark it all feels the same. At least that is what I have been told.

Jim our suspicions have been confirmed... She is now with this guy that she was chatting with a lot towards the end... I fought her over it but she assured me that she would never want to date him.... Its none of my business but it pisses me off...