With her face, I don't think she has to worry....

[m21sniper]

Originally Posted by speeder

"Fitness slut"...

Goddamn, that guy has the IQ of a rusty lugnut.

Originally Posted by speeder

That biotch could make a freight train take a dirt road. She could knock the buzzards off a schit wagon.

Dude, you were saying?

Are you simply incapable of not flaming someone that is attempting to let sleeping dogs lie? All you're doing is making yourself look like a petty hypocrite.

[speeder]

HAHA HAHA.....

"Ignore list..."

removed - ns

[speeder]

Originally Posted by Gogar

Which, Denis's first pic? I have a feeling it's a lady named Mary Weiland.

Yup. It's right there on the cover of the books in front of her. She has nothing to do with this thread other than I put her up as a random pic of an extremely beautiful woman. In contrast to the ugly one. Sorry for any confusion.

[Mark Henry]

I was talking about the second chick, the one with the thick ankles and adams apple....but I have no clue who the other one is as well.

Originally Posted by nostatic

A few years back after I separated, I was dating this wonderful woman who was 10 years younger than me (45 - 35). A lot of the relationship was downright amazing, and I credit her with literally saving me after many rough years. But one day we went to a picnic/party at the park next to LACMA. Almost all her friends/peers, some of whom I knew through work, others just through her. I had Calvin that weekend so I brought him along. While I had a great time, the nature of the problem crystalized. We were sitting around and her friends were talking about marriage (some recent), kids (one was pregnant, others thinking about it), careers (some of them just out of grad school), etc.

At that point I realized that I was just in a different point/phase of my life. I'd been down those roads (some of them a few times). And this wonderful woman that I was with hadn't yet traveled them. She totally deserved to walk those paths, but for some of them I'd btdt and was now somewhere else. I then understood the concept of two people needing to be "in-phase" on some/most of the elements of their lives in order to have things deeply work.

While there are exceptions, and everyone has somewhat different experiences, I believe that in general having a large age difference cannot be overcome in the end, unless one partner is willing and able to forgo part of their journey. And even if they are, that sacrifice may come back to bite them in the end (eg a woman who doesn't have kids because the guy already has them, or the guy who has kids at 55 and then can't really be part of their lives, etc).

ymmv, but that certainly has been my experience, and I've seen it happen with a lot of other couples. That and I find that often the old guy/young woman is all about the guy desperately trying to turn back the clock. Similar to using hair dye, etc. I really respect those that don't surrender to the years ("rage against the dying of the light"), but find a way to stay dignified and not look like a bad joke.

Nostatic,

Very well put. Several years ago my wife and I went to the Oak Bar at the Plaza in NYC. We got a chuckle out of all the 50-60-yo investment banker types hanging out with 25-yo knockout babes. It seemed the size of the diamonds on the chicks was directly proportionate to the difference in age. Bad jokes indeed.

[m21sniper]

The difference between me and those guys is that i'm broke, i'm getting young chicks based purely on my looks and conversation.

[mossguy]

Originally Posted by m21sniper

The difference between me and those guys is that i'm broke, i'm getting young chicks based purely on my looks and conversation.

and your modesty.

Best,
Tom

[m21sniper]

Hehe

I actually find older professional chix to be more challenging to land, to be honest. Young girls IME don't care about money, they're basically just looking for some fun (IOW, they're just horny).