4 years ago I had a health problem that I spent a year in a lazy boy waiting for my foot/legs to heal. Had to keep them elevated and couldn't walk. During that time I invested in a huge TV with all kinds of connections and games to keep entertained. Also contacted almost everyone I knew that I could think of using facebook, Linked IN, or just internet searches. Both male and female. Basically was just bored and enjoyed catching up with old friends sharing what had happened over the years.

Think we all enjoyed it, I know I did. There were a few that never got back with me, figured that was their problem not mine. None of the contacts I made ever went past email catching up though many of us follow each other on facebook. A few of us exchanged pictures (showing how old we now looked and family, etc.), but there was no need to meet or even talk to on the phone.

There was a HS friend and HS ex girlfriend that never dated in HS. They were both divorced that ended up reconnecting and getting married after I had contacted and friended them on facebook. It is interesting to me how many people are friends now that wouldn't give each other the time of day back in HS.

No pictures! Did not happen. Talked to my wife , I got the impression that it was up to me but could tell she would not be happy so it did not happen. No regrets.

So no letter to Penthouse Forum about the wild meet up with the old girl friend.

Good choice.

The simple rule of thumb, it your wife got a similar request from a past boyfriend how would your react. When in doubt, don't do it.

Or the worst Penthouse Letter ever...

Dear Penthouse,

A Smokin' hot sex kitten from my past just got back in contact with me.

The end. :)

Could be worse, he could have gone and it would be:

A Smokin' hot sex kitten from my past just got back in contact with me. Turns out she is now 486 pounds and more folds than an origami convention and skin like jerky...

OK your version IS much worse :)