seat belt connector trick

[dr3358]

This is for the seat belt buckle when hooking up the new one because of the dreaded air bag error code. How on earth do you connect the seat belt buckle electrical connector to the large connector under the seat. It almost took a crowbar to get the old one out. 2002 996tt. Have new seat belt buckle but there must be a trick to getting it connected, but for the life of me I can't see it. My 930 was a lot easier!!!!!!