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Originally Posted by stomachmonkey
Well, maybe the way to tell the wife is by enlisting her help.
Don't make it about yourself or the stalking, take the focus off that, treat it as a by product of what the issue really is.
The friends marriage.
"Hey hon, got a problem and need your advice.
My buddy Dave, I think he's having marital issues and I don't know whether to broach the subject with him or let it play out on its own.
Here's what's going on...."
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So much this.
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Originally Posted by stomachmonkey
And FWIW, don't discount the possibility that your buddy cheated on her, she found out and is looking for a way to get back at him.
That's your answer if your wife asks, which would be a natural question, "well why you?"
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And this!!
You should have told her right off the bat, if she asks why this has been going on for so long, be honest, you did not want her to get upset.
I had an EX come after me on FB 10 years ago right after she got divorced, the moment the message arrived that she wanted to re-connect, I told my wife to come over and read this.
She read it, said that girl was pathetic and then I told her thanks but no thanks throwing in a line about how disrespectful this was to my wife for good measure.
Then she decided to create drama, blocked her and deleted FB, best move of my life.