Here's two pics. The black Beuler is the stock one provided by Electromotive and the gray I picked up locally when I thought I just had a bad relay.
One pic has the numbers and the other pic has the schematic. The black Bueler looks to have a resistor with the coil ?
The Beuler is a five pin / the gray a four pin, but I don't need the 87a pin (I believe)