[sc_rufctr]

Originally Posted by rattlsnak

Well this has come full circle..

Read this to catch up..

What would you do?

Well grandson #2 arrived a few months ago and she is full bore in baby mode again. After several months of counseling and serious conversations she said she wants her own again. She has been to the fertility clinic, the donor egg clinic and ran all the tests they wanted her to run and we find out in a few days what the verdict will be. (If he will let her carry it either with her egg or donor). So now I'm a few years older, as is she, and am just heartbroken over this as she said I'm 99% sure if he says yes, then I'm going to do it. I told her that it wont be with me and she said that makes her sad but she cant deny this anymore. I can't convince her on how hard this will be, especially alone, but it doesn't matter to her. I've tried every angle about it not being fair to the child, etc.. nothing..

FML...

Why not you?

Nobody knows the future. If you can then do it.