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Originally Posted by masraum
I've heard/read over and over that it's almost always a bad idea to give that sort of news or say "Suzy/Bob is cheating on you" or in any way bad-mouth a spouse to a friend. The theory is that they never believe you, and it almost always results in bad feelings or loss of friendship.
It sounds like it's been a long time. I suspect you could reach out and you may be able to at least catch up and reacquaint. You may never return to the relationship that you had before, but I assume some would be better than none. I would just avoid any sort of "I told you so..." statements or references. I would avoid that like the plague and probably barely acknowledge if my buddy brought it up.
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Thank you for the sage advice. Believe me, I’ve thought about it. Knowing him as well as I had, I am sure at this point, if he could forgive me he would have by now. I have little doubt he knows my intentions were good.