Hey. what do you call a guy that likes to hang out with musicians?
A drummer.
You've probably passed the point in your life where you can develop the fine motor skills neccessary to be a master (I'll never drive Formula 1 and probably not any big professional race), but you could have a lot of fun and some good bonding time with your young one.
I had a set of Congas for a few years that I played periodically before deciding to focus on less hobbies. My brother had a small trap set for a few years that I played (using that term loosely) on occasion. Drumming can be fun and a great stress reliever.
Man of a million hobbies and master of none,
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Rob Channell
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