Two words: anger management. I mean that seriously, not as some OT quip.
My only other recommendation is that you post the full details of any accusations against me here for all to see. Why do it behind the scenes in email or PM?
Bring it out in light.
EDIT: If you've just started reading this, go get yourself some chips, salsa, heck, a whole turkey dinner, you'll be here awhile.
You can save yourself a lot of time and headache by going to page 12, mid page, here:
http://forums.pelicanparts.com/off-topic-discussions/236475-im-calling-you-out-69-girlie-boy-post2075024.html#post2075024
Take a read and then come back, but only if you have absolutely nothing to do for the next few hours.