[notfarnow]

I would have said no, but then there's my father in law.

He has renewed my faith in people's ability to control their behavior, and their lives. Used to be a miserable, mean and nasty dude. He is now one of the gentlest, kindest and most considerate people I know. It alsmost seemed as though he just decided "I don't want to be like this anymore." Mind you, his first step towards redemption and a happier life was getting a divorce... whatever works!