[Tobra]

I had them do a "retroactive change on the amount I was to pay each month. They notified me two months after she turned 18, and said I owed them $7000 and change for under paying for the last year and a half. I could have gone to court and hammered the ex for half the tuition at the private high schools that I paid and ended up with her owing me money, but had a second thought, "Wait a minute, this would be a waste of my valuable time, I will just go earn some $$. The poor HS dropout at the courthouse could not figure it out when I went in a paid the dough. She looked it up, said, "I don't understand, you have not missed a payment in...ever"

I did not care so much about her not spending the support payments on the kids, but it cheesed me off that she lied to the kids about me for their entire lives, and did all that she could to destroy any possibility that I have any relationship with them. It hurts me, but I understand she is a stinking whore, tough for a kid to wrap their heads around something like that, so I never told them. I talked to them about it a little, but they are completely brainwashed, shame really, I am absolutely certain it hurt the kids more than me.