[jkarolyi]

My folks separated for about 1 year. That's how long it took for my bull-headed father to agree to marriage counseling. I'm usually wary of shrinks, but they had a good one and IT WORKS! They have been back together for 10 years now and get along better than ever.

Suck up your pride and try a shrink if you think your marriage is worth saving (and it appears that you do).