[rbarton]

Thanks. I have started going to a counselor (never thought I'd be one of THOSE people), and have been to my personal doctor for treatment of the depression I've been going through. I hear you about how strong our marriage can be if we can somehow make it through this, and have mentioned it to my wife. She has agreed to hold off on filing for divorce until she can get her anger under control (she's been in therapy for a few months, mostly for other issues), but that is about the only positive thing she's been willing to agree to.

If anyone else can share their experiences I'd appreciate it.