[Bill Douglas]

Ummm, that Toni chick is very attractive.

I had a long time girlfriend once, for the sake of this discussion let's call her Lisa Sheppard.

Lisa was on an emotional rollercoaster constantly. For about three days she would call me about 5 times a day at work to tell me how much she loved me. For the next week she was a nice normal girlfriend. The next week she was a bit businesslike when I spoke to her "Yes" or to answer a phone message with "You called". The next week was "Look I'm really busy - what do you want" or "Fark, there's more going on in my life than just you - piss off for now would you". Now us kiwis are pretty thick skinned people so that was ok but week number 3 or 4 she wanted full on yelling matches and she would say some really nasty stuff. So at this point she was very much 50% 50% I could take it or leave it and was probably more on the side of not seeing her again. But what really wound me up was the only thing that really got her hot was showing her tits off to every man she ever met. She wore very low very loose tops with nothing on underneath and loved an audience. Yes it does sound fun but only if you are the other guy. Kiwis being thick skinned are also liberal with our GFs topless or nude at the beach, but after about five years of wondering what the hell she has been up to in the Jacuzzi at the hotel or what ever I dumped her.

Now I have a certain level of what is acceptable and when they pass it - bye. Their emotions are their problem.