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Originally Posted by livi
She is a big girl now. She needs support, not punishment. She needs to understand the consequences of her grades in terms of future possibilities AND she needs to fully understand your motives for urging her to pick up the study pace.
Guidance - not punishment.
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Talk to her. Make her understand that top grades are important and should be the top priority.
Since she's not acheiving them as she used to try and make her understand that she needs to spend more time on that.
If this means curbing some other activities make her decide. Do not take away the bf as a unilateral decision. It could backfire, and from what I have read here she seems to be a very judicious and responsible young woman.