[Superman]

I'm not crystal clear on your point rusnak, but I will agree that women and men are attracted to each other for different reasons. Men are moved by physical stuff, which is not nearly as important to women. Women are taught that their value lies in their appearance. Sad, but true. Women evaluate men on practical grounds. Is he confident? Is he resourceful? I have, at times, been resentful to be valued for what I can bring home. At least, women are sought for who THEY ARE, albeit mostly physical. At least, they can have the satisfaction that they are valued not for what they can do, but for who they are right at that moment. Unfortunately, their beauty is going to fade. Is that a recipe for insecurity and depression, or what?