[KaptKaos]

Maybe the best way to start is to ask what dealerships are local to you? Also, you should ask around to see if there are any good local mechanics that people rely on.

I think others have identified, and maybe rightly so, that you're still a car guy. I think the first step in dealing with a problem is admitting that you have a problem. Well, um, problem might be a strong word, but you understand.

Once you get it through your head that if you want to be happy with a car, and that happiness comes from a certain level of refinement and performance in said car, that you will need to deal with the maintenance issues.

It's kinda silly to be sad about not having a fun car, when you have the ability to have one, but are forcing yourself not to. Go make yourself happy and just deal with it.