[masraum]

Wow, that is really tough. The pros and cons seem fairly even in a weird sort of way. I was countered when I left my last company. I told them what I wanted to stay, they didn't get close. The commute here was longer and the parking a bit of a pain, but it still worked out well in the end. My old company has asked me back about 4-5 times. I stuck with my original plan (leaving) and it worked out well.

It's hard, impossible even to really know which is the absolute best option. None of us have working crystal balls. Because of that, you can second guess yourself forever. You never know, the new job may work out to be better than you think, and who knows what another year or three have in store for you.

Go with your gut. Good luck.