[stomachmonkey]

Like George said you are now in the position of potentially pissing someone off and dinging your rep regardless of which position you decide to keep. So that one's done, it's a wash, take it off the decision table.

Based on your +/- list I say stay with the current gig.

I also work in an industry where there are a constant/consistent core group of players. The kind of business where generally if you screw someone you are done. But depending on who you are and who you screwed it is sometimes forgiven.

A good friend/former co-worker took a high profile gig with a high profile company then took an offer from another co 3 weeks later. We all kind of went tsk,tsk, bad move. We did not like what she did but she was also not known as a mercenary. We knew it had to be a difficult decision and she knew how bad it could make things for her.

It's been a couple of years now and it's been forgotten.