[LWJ]

Good answers. Thank you. As for Sniper - it really isn't us. Wife's Brother is skipped even more than we are. As for Dueller, no. FIL is a very successful lawyer and Step MIL is your classic stay at home and decorate / volunteer / take art lessons sort of wife.

I really liked that idea that my anger was fueling the fire. It probably is. My wife is usually very ok with how things work until a holiday or event comes around. Then it only serves to make her feel bad. I am going to show her your responses tonight and we will laugh about the picture requests, etc.

Thank you. I appreciate being able to dump a difficult question and get so many responses. It is good to clear my head.

Larry