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Originally Posted by ODDJOB UNO
the bottom line to ANY DYSFUNCTION.......................YOU CANT CONTROL IT! no matter how hard ya try,no matter how much you care.
you become CO-DEPENDENT!
TOUGHEST THING I HAVE EVER DONE IN MY LIFE..............is WALK AWAY!
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It gets easier.
Leave it alone, stay out of it, and accept them for who they are without expecting anything.
Make your own plans for holidays, etc. and don't sit around waiting. Granting being and expecting nothing will change your life.
Get a book on codependance and read it.