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I thought she wanted out. She should be happy to move forward. Do you both have lawyers? For mine we just used a single attorney as arbitrator and called it good. She was reasonable and I didn't fight anything so it was pretty smooth. Thankfully I can't speak to a contentious divorce. That said, I have friends who have gone through that, and from my vantage point the pissing match was never one-sided. Any "unreasonable demand" from one side was usually met with a tit-for-tat response and the lawyers made more money. I'd rather walk away from everything to get out easy and clean and just start over but that's me. Being on the moral high ground of what is "right" really isn't of much use when you've given most of your money to a couple of attorneys for the pleasure of that honor. imho, ymmv.
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