[VaSteve]

Each child is unique and has unique needs so they are treated different and thus you have different experiences. I only hav e 2 and we do different things together. Will always be perceived as unfair by them in one instance or another.

That family on TV with 20 kids? Has to be unfair to most of them.

My wife was the middle child, she said she was probably the least favorite. She's very independant but has a 42 year old sister that still lives at home So was that the cause or result of her independance?