Believe me, I know. I was "that kid," too. She shakes her head very disapprovingly when she hears stories of my youth...lol.
Currently, peer pressure washes over her back. She's in Girl Scouts; all of her friends have quit because it's "not cool" anymore. She gets made fun of by some kids because she's still doing it. She continues because she likes helping the younger girls and because it can help her with college (scholarships, and what not).
That's now. At 16, it could be a completely different story, but I hope not
And as far as the boyfriends go...I'm kinda scary looking (or so I'm told). I plan to use that to my full advantage