[kaisen]

I'll weigh in.

It seems the consensus among Pelicans in this thread is "you'll want kids eventually"

Stepping back a bit, you probably shouldn't have kids. Don't feel societal pressure that having kids is just something we all do eventually. Sure, biologically, it's why we're here. But there are plenty of idiots popping out kids, the world doesn't really need yours too.

Based on your responses, you should cut bait. Move on. Have fun. Buy stuff. Have hobbies. Continue to be self centered. Buy more stuff.

But for *her* sake, allow her to chase that dream, as she will forever feel broken and resentful if she can't have children.