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I didn't want to have kids in my 20's, my wife did..
I bought her a cat (seriously) and that bought me like a couple of years..
Just like you I was at crossroads.. loose her or family..
I chose family and that was the best decision I made.

Someone told me there is never a good time to have kids... true.. You can still have all your hobbies, just have to juggle them. How many happy guys around here have very cool cars, projects, etc. and families.

Finding a partner like yours sounds like you'll never get again.. as you grow older what's left on the market is there for a reason, the good ones are taken already.. (most of the time)

Don't turn into those grumpy guys that prefer to live a life of loneliness by filling it with material things.