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It is said one has no control in the stressors in one's life.
You do, however have control over your reaction to those stressors.
Some here have expressed concern over the way others with whom they are in contact choose to dress or present themselves. If they are not presenting themselves in a manner you are expecting, you feel some stress. The situation might be someone in a suit striding through the showers at the gym or someone displaying cleavage in your presence. It is only a big deal if you consider it so.
Is it your place to comment? Well, if her breast falls into your salad you might want to request a replacement.
Last summer I had a guy come into the Center in a nice dress with shoes which looked like they came out of a sports bag. Also, he could have used a shave. I admit it threw my off my game for a minute, but once we got discussing the facility, I was able to put his appearance into the "not relevant "category.
It is all in your mind. if you let it.
Best
Les