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ItzaMe 04-03-2019 05:46 AM

A word FROM the wise?
 
Will try to keep this short and sweet.

I've been on this forum for some years and this group of people seems to have many years of experience in life generally.

I have made some big changes throughout my life in the last 6 months, mainly moving to a new state and taking on a new engineering role.

I'm 24 and the main reason I moved was because me, my brother, and my buddy started a business re-selling returned/overstock amazon goods by the truck load. Getting another engineering job was mainly to get me to quit my old one and make the move.

We chose our location since it made sense where some of the loads were coming from and we were familiar with the area already and had friends here also.

Business is slowly growing and have 400+ customers right now who signed up with out online auction.

I work full time 8-5PM and then get to our warehouse and work another 4+ hours daily doing inventory/organizing or cleaning up. I like holding my weight being a part owner.

These last few weeks it's felt impossible trying to keep up with my full time job and the business while still being able to have a social life.

What do you guys think? The business doesn't require cray hours to keep it running. We recently hired a couple more guys to do inventory so that will help also.

I have messed with making music, making YouTube videos, rebuilding cars/bikes and selling all my life. I think that if I off the full time job that I will be alright making funds roll in those other ways. Especially in today's day where people posting videos on YouTube are binging in crazy numbers.

I have some money saved also and have been thinking of investing in a few other ways but i have NO TIME when my job sucks 9+ hours out of me daily.

It's killing my creativity and imagination.

What do you guys think? Have you ever taken a leap and what do you suggest?

Any words of wisdom?

stomachmonkey 04-03-2019 05:51 AM

Are you asking us should you dump the 9-5?

You are 24, no better time than now to be broke and trying to make your own way while enjoying life.

Soon you'll meet that someone, settle down, have kids, and those opportunities will be fewer because you now have responsibilities that can limit your choices.

cabmandone 04-03-2019 05:52 AM

How much personal debt do you have?

Quote:

Originally Posted by stomachmonkey (Post 10414753)
Are you asking us should you dump the 9-5?

You are 24, no better time than now to be broke and trying to make your own way while enjoying life.

Soon you'll meet that someone, settle down, have kids, and those opportunities will be fewer because you now have responsibilities that can limit your choices

I actually did the opposite. Started a business after my first kid came along. Nothing motivates quite like responsibility.

flatbutt 04-03-2019 05:55 AM

You must be happy in what you do for a living. Experiment NOW before you have the responsibility of a family. If it were me I'd look for a balance between the two jobs and examine which means more to me while taking the time needed to be me.

Do it now youngblood, you will not be able to do it later.

1979-930 04-03-2019 06:28 AM

I have always worked 10+ hrs a day. From 17 to 46 and I don't plan on stopping. I have always made good money. But I haven't always liked my job. I have had jobs with companies for 6 years where I hated being there. I could feel the energy being drained from me as I drove to work.
I kept working and looking. I eventually found myself in a job that I loved doing and the 10hr to 12hr days seemed like nothing. Iv'e been here for 15 years now and President for 6 years. I work 10hr days and I'll die happy here.

My point and what I've learned is; If you hate going to work no amount of money will make you happy.

fastfredracing 04-03-2019 06:30 AM

If you have a good thing going, make hay while the sun is shining. Pay your house off, keep your debt low. Set yourself up so that when you are older, and can no longer keep up the same pace, you can start to enjoy the fruits of your labor and pull back a little bit .
Make sure to enjoy some down time though.

javadog 04-03-2019 07:35 AM

I would keep your day job until your part-time job pays more than it does. Assuming you can make ends meet by doing a half a dozen random things is not a good idea.

Seahawk 04-03-2019 07:45 AM

A few addition questions to add to the list:

Is the salary from the 9 to 5 essential?

If you went full time with the business gig, would that put you in a financial bind?

Can you part-time the engineering job?

How is the business structured? LLC, C/S Corp? Roles and responsibilities defined? If you are hiring people who does your employee manual, other HR related issues?

Accounting structure...most small start-ups get on rocky shoals here. Line of credit? Are you protected?

Lawyer? We use a CPA with a law degree - saves a lot of money.

I ask these questions because running a business is hard and you need to be hands on...nothing fails more than a business with a part-time owner. You have to drive the bus.

If your brother and buddy are at the helm and you trust them, that is a different story. However, success and money change people. Trust but verify.

Sounds like exciting stuff but get hyper organized if you have not already done so.

OldSpool87 04-03-2019 07:49 AM

24 yrs old is the time to take a risk. If you jump in with two feet and things don’t work out, at least you’ll know. And keep in mind that quitting your job to pursue opportunity won’t erase your engineering background and skill set. If I was hiring and had you as an applicant I would ask about the employment gap. You tell me you went to start a new business venture. I see a motivated self starter who took a calculated risk. Not a bad thing…

cstreit 04-03-2019 07:59 AM

You're 24. If you're going to take risks, NOW is the time. Every year you get older you have more to lose and hence, it gets harder....

nb6179505 04-03-2019 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by cabmando (Post 10414755)



I actually did the opposite. Started a business after my first kid came along. Nothing motivates quite like responsibility.

Would like to know more. In the same boat sort of, 30 years old, about to have a kid, own a home. But always looking to take a risk if it pays off....

What sort of business?

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McLovin 04-03-2019 08:10 AM

I agree that 24 is a time to take risk, but for your situation would need more info.

How much does your engineering job make now, and what level of income could be expected for the future?

Could you work your engineering job for a few years, learn it, make contacts then start your own engineering company? Would that be lucrative?

How much do you like/hate engineering?

If you quit your job, how hard would it be to go back and get a similar job?

How much does the Amazon reselling biz make and what are the income prospects for the future? Taking in mind that you are only getting a third of the net profits.

I’d focus your decision on the business and not count on anything from making music, YouTube videos, etc.

stomachmonkey 04-03-2019 08:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cabmando (Post 10414755)
Nothing motivates quite like responsibility.

I agree, but my position was responsibility can also limit what one can actually undertake regardless of the motivation to do so.

Kinda like being tethered to the bottom of a 10 ft deep pool by a 9 foot rope.

Zeke 04-03-2019 08:21 AM

Looking back over the years I should have taken the tortoise route vs. the hare. A good career is just that. If the engineering job is not challenging enough to want limit hours spent on a side gig, then another job in engineering might.

You asked for advice so that's it from a 73 YO man.

Seahawk 04-03-2019 08:36 AM

I should add that I was a part owner of a white water rafting company when I was 20.

I had very good advice from one of my Econ professors, trite but true: Easier to get married than divorced. Get a business pre-nup.

tabs 04-03-2019 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by 1979-930 (Post 10414793)
I have always worked 10+ hrs a day. From 17 to 46 and I don't plan on stopping. I have always made good money. But I haven't always liked my job. I have had jobs with companies for 6 years where I hated being there. I could feel the energy being drained from me as I drove to work.
I kept working and looking. I eventually found myself in a job that I loved doing and the 10hr to 12hr days seemed like nothing. Iv'e been here for 15 years now and President for 6 years. I work 10hr days and I'll die happy here.

My point and what I've learned is; If you hate going to work no amount of money will make you happy.

You are getting into your massive heart attack years..so you might get your wish.

You ain't a spring chicken no more. Your body does not have the same tolerance nor resiliency to.handle stress as it once had. You have already worn those parts down through continual use. You now have to be aware of when you feel tired and back off a bit to recoup. If you don't one morning you will wake up and find that you are dead.

It is a very common mistake to think you can do what you did at 35 . You have already put those miles on your chassis. The guys who think they are still bullet proof are the ones whose engines seize up..

ItzaMe 04-03-2019 09:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stomachmonkey (Post 10414753)
Are you asking us should you dump the 9-5?

You are 24, no better time than now to be broke and trying to make your own way while enjoying life.

Soon you'll meet that someone, settle down, have kids, and those opportunities will be fewer because you now have responsibilities that can limit your choices.

I heard similar when I made the big move to another state and I'm happy I made the change. So dumping the 8-5 might also be a good step.

I have a girlfriend also. It's a new relationship but I'm a pretty serious guy. Won't be dating for year(s) so marriage definitely down the line unless something trash occurs.

Quote:

Originally Posted by cabmando (Post 10414755)
How much personal debt do you have?



I actually did the opposite. Started a business after my first kid came along. Nothing motivates quite like responsibility.

Zero personal dept.

Nothing owed for school/cars etc. Renting a place with my buddy and a friend about $300/month.

Looking for a fixer upper house to own also split between the business owners of our company.

Zeke 04-03-2019 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by tabs (Post 10415037)
You are getting into your massive heart attack years..so you might get your wish.

You ain't a spring chicken no more. Your body does not have the same tolerance nor resiliency to.handle stress as it once had. You have already worn those parts down through continual use. You now have to be aware of when you feel tired and back off a bit to recoup. If you don't one morning you will wake up and find that you are dead.

It is a very common mistake to think you can do what you did at 35 . You have already put those miles on your chassis. The guys who think they are still bullet proof are the ones whose engines seize up..

Tell that to a mid western farmer who works 6 days a week and sees to the livestock even on Sunday. Meaningful physical work is actually beneficial. Yes, one learns to work smarter rather than harder over time. But I don't care what year it is, the lumber still weighs the same.

ItzaMe 04-03-2019 09:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by flatbutt (Post 10414758)
You must be happy in what you do for a living. Experiment NOW before you have the responsibility of a family. If it were me I'd look for a balance between the two jobs and examine which means more to me while taking the time needed to be me.

Do it now youngblood, you will not be able to do it later.

Thanks. I'm not happy at my current job.

Quote:

Originally Posted by 1979-930 (Post 10414793)
I have always worked 10+ hrs a day. From 17 to 46 and I don't plan on stopping. I have always made good money. But I haven't always liked my job. I have had jobs with companies for 6 years where I hated being there. I could feel the energy being drained from me as I drove to work.
I kept working and looking. I eventually found myself in a job that I loved doing and the 10hr to 12hr days seemed like nothing. Iv'e been here for 15 years now and President for 6 years. I work 10hr days and I'll die happy here.

My point and what I've learned is; If you hate going to work no amount of money will make you happy.

Me energy is definitely being drained from me on the daily.

Maybe down the line ill acquire an engineer job that I love but right now I think I can use todays society and tools for my benefit.

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Originally Posted by fastfredracing (Post 10414794)
If you have a good thing going, make hay while the sun is shining. Pay your house off, keep your debt low. Set yourself up so that when you are older, and can no longer keep up the same pace, you can start to enjoy the fruits of your labor and pull back a little bit .
Make sure to enjoy some down time though.

I have zero time to focus on things that I actually love doing and creating.

It took me less than a month to find this new job so I might take the chance.

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Originally Posted by afterburn 549 (Post 10414850)
If you are self-employed you immediately graduate to at least 1/2 days , that is 12-hour minimums
for the first 5 years.
The next thing is most business go under in less than 5 because of bad management skills.
Overstock what they don't use, wrong advertisement campaign, etc etc,
Don't complain if you are running in the green with a line looking like it will do better in a while.

We aren't bringing in much money. All profit goes towards building the business so I understand. The people who originally opened one up have gown to 20+ customers in about 3-4 years and we work with them and always ask questions when we run into issues.

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Originally Posted by javadog (Post 10414906)
I would keep your day job until your part-time job pays more than it does. Assuming you can make ends meet by doing a half a dozen random things is not a good idea.

It's going to be a while till the business brings in same money as my salary job.

I'm not a baller but I'm at the point in my life where money seems like an idol to me since I don't enjoy what I'm doing right now.

Bugsinrugs 04-03-2019 09:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zeke (Post 10415055)
Tell that to a mid western farmer who works 6 days a week and sees to the livestock even on Sunday. Meaningful physical work is actually beneficial. Yes, one learns to work smarter rather than harder over time. But I don't care what year it is, the lumber still weighs the same.

Right on the money!!!!

scottmandue 04-03-2019 09:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fastfredracing (Post 10414794)
If you have a good thing going, make hay while the sun is shining. Pay your house off, keep your debt low. Set yourself up so that when you are older, and can no longer keep up the same pace, you can start to enjoy the fruits of your labor and pull back a little bit .
Make sure to enjoy some down time though.

^^^^This! I'm retiring at 62 years old because I spent +20 years job hoping. Many of my friends retired in there 50's (or less) because they stuck to a (good) job.

ItzaMe 04-03-2019 09:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Seahawk (Post 10414914)
A few addition questions to add to the list:

Is the salary from the 9 to 5 essential?

Not essential, I basically got the job to have more funds to expand the business but we aren't in need of much funds right now since profit is helping us grow. Also my dad told me why would I leave home when I have a good job, so that's another reason I got the 8 to 5, to give him some peace knowing I'm not being a bum.

If you went full time with the business gig, would that put you in a financial bind?

No sir. I will put more time into the car stuff I used to do and have been thinking about getting into real estate.

Can you part-time the engineering job?

I will ask about this, but not likely.

How is the business structured? LLC, C/S Corp? Roles and responsibilities defined? If you are hiring people who does your employee manual, other HR related issues?

LLC. The roles and responsibilities are defined but shared. It's a very new business so still figuring a few things out.

Accounting structure...most small start-ups get on rocky shoals here. Line of credit? Are you protected?

We have an accountant/CPA

Lawyer? We use a CPA with a law degree - saves a lot of money.

I ask these questions because running a business is hard and you need to be hands on...nothing fails more than a business with a part-time owner. You have to drive the bus.

I understand, my buddy is full time, my brother is also besides two days out the week, and I'm part time while taking care of other aspects of the business. There isn't much to do once trucks arrive, items are inventoried and organized. That's when we need to think about growth and advertising.

If your brother and buddy are at the helm and you trust them, that is a different story. However, success and money change people. Trust but verify.

I understand but they are the most trust worthy I know. Time will tell.

Sounds like exciting stuff but get hyper organized if you have not already done so.

Thanks for the input and questions.

see above

javadog 04-03-2019 09:35 AM

If you’re not bringing in much money through the business right now, then you need to keep your day job. You may not like it, that’s sort of the nature of work for most people, but you need to get some years on your resume.

ItzaMe 04-03-2019 09:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by McLovin (Post 10414953)
I agree that 24 is a time to take risk, but for your situation would need more info.

How much does your engineering job make now, and what level of income could be expected for the future?

Could you work your engineering job for a few years, learn it, make contacts then start your own engineering company? Would that be lucrative?

How much do you like/hate engineering?

If you quit your job, how hard would it be to go back and get a similar job?

How much does the Amazon reselling biz make and what are the income prospects for the future? Taking in mind that you are only getting a third of the net profits.

I’d focus your decision on the business and not count on anything from making music, YouTube videos, etc.

-It's starting salary for a mechanical engineer roll in Lexington KY.

-I may open up an engineering type company later in the future but right now that's a lot to think about since there are so many different types/directions.

-If I quit, I can see myself getting another gig within 1-2 months.

-Any money coming in is going right back into ordering more trucks. Later on we will be buying from home depot and other suppliers.

-The music, Youtube is all things I enjoy and can see possible money being made. It's not something I would focus for money making.

ItzaMe 04-03-2019 09:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zeke (Post 10414973)
Looking back over the years I should have taken the tortoise route vs. the hare. A good career is just that. If the engineering job is not challenging enough to want limit hours spent on a side gig, then another job in engineering might.

You asked for advice so that's it from a 73 YO man.

Thanks, will keep in mind.

ItzaMe 04-03-2019 09:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by javadog (Post 10415081)
If you’re not bringing in much money through the business right now, then you need to keep your day job. You may not like it, that’s sort of the nature of work for most people, but you need to get some years on your resume.

True. I will roll the dice here shortly in the next few months.

tabs 04-03-2019 09:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ItzaMe (Post 10414744)
Will try to keep this short and sweet.

I've been on this forum for some years and this group of people seems to have many years of experience in life generally.

I have made some big changes throughout my life in the last 6 months, mainly moving to a new state and taking on a new engineering role.

I'm 24 and the main reason I moved was because me, my brother, and my buddy started a business re-selling returned/overstock amazon goods by the truck load. Getting another engineering job was mainly to get me to quit my old one and make the move.

We chose our location since it made sense where some of the loads were coming from and we were familiar with the area already and had friends here also.

Business is slowly growing and have 400+ customers right now who signed up with out online auction.

I work full time 8-5PM and then get to our warehouse and work another 4+ hours daily doing inventory/organizing or cleaning up. I like holding my weight being a part owner.

These last few weeks it's felt impossible trying to keep up with my full time job and the business while still being able to have a social life.

What do you guys think? The business doesn't require cray hours to keep it running. We recently hired a couple more guys to do inventory so that will help also.

I have messed with making music, making YouTube videos, rebuilding cars/bikes and selling all my life. I think that if I off the full time job that I will be alright making funds roll in those other ways. Especially in today's day where people posting videos on YouTube are binging in crazy numbers.

I have some money saved also and have been thinking of investing in a few other ways but i have NO TIME when my job sucks 9+ hours out of me daily.

It's killing my creativity and imagination.

What do you guys think? Have you ever taken a leap and what do you suggest?

Any words of wisdom?

You are a hustler. You are always thinking and have the guts to give it a try...you have the potential to make it big.

A job working for somebody elses hustle is just that a job..you do what they want for a buck. Sometimes that serves a purpose..figure out what is best for you..staying in that job for awhile gives you a track record..in case you need it..

Think about it..mull it over for awhile and revisit to see if it still makes sense. In other words think before you jump. Think of the angles. The pros and cons. Weigh it out. Talk about it to see if you missed something.

Then there is what you might call biding your time..for the window of opportunity to open. There is a proper moment to move when everything is just right. It is called patience. Alexander waited for the moment to strike..he conquered nearly the whole world before he was 32.

It is a Darwinian world of sink or swim..nobody teaches the process of navigating your way through life...those who get the process survive and those that don't fail.

Seahawk 04-03-2019 09:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ItzaMe (Post 10415078)
see above

Good stuff...great to read your responses.

A few more Q's:

- Investors? Willing to entertain investors? That changes a bunch of "stuff". The Securities and Exchange folks need looking after.

- Exit strategy. Another trite but true saying in econ/business is that you form a company to sell it. Prepare an exit strategy and organize the company around what potential buyers will be looking for as they do their due diligence. I have a check list should you need it.

- Five Year Plan. There are some really good spreadsheets available that help you chart your path, EBITDA, etc. If you haven't done one, you guys should.

- In your ample spare time (:cool:) take an accounting class - basic stuff.

As you can tell, I love this area of business. Sincerely, best of luck. Very exciting. My daughter, 25, is starting along the same arc in a different field.

tabs 04-03-2019 10:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Seahawk (Post 10415108)
Good stuff...great to read your responses.

A few more Q's:

- Investors? Willing to entertain investors? That changes a bunch of "stuff". The Securities and Exchange folks need looking after.

- Exit strategy. Another trite but true saying in econ/business is that you form a company to sell it. Prepare an exit strategy and organize the company around what potential buyers will be looking for as they do their due diligence. I have a check list should you need it.

- Five Year Plan. There are some really good spreadsheets available that help you chart your path, EBIDA, etc. If you haven't done one, you guys should.

- In your ample spare time (:cool:) take an accounting class - basic stuff.

As you can tell, I love this area of business. Sincerely, best of luck. Very exciting. My daughter, 25, is starting along the same arc in a different field.

Is an arc a trajectory...

The arc of history..the trajectory of history..interchangable

ItzaMe 04-03-2019 10:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tabs (Post 10415107)
You are a hustler. You are always thinking and have the guts to give it a try...you have the potential to make it big.

A job working for somebody elses hustle is just that a job..you do what they want for a buck. Sometimes that serves a purpose..figure out what is best for you..staying in that job for awhile gives you a track record..in case you need it..

Think about it..mull it over for awhile and revisit to see if it still makes sense. In other words think before you jump. Think of the angles. The pros and cons. Weigh it out. Talk about it to see if you missed something.

Then there is what you might call biding your time..for the window of opportunity to open. There is a proper moment to move when everything is just right. It is called patience. Alexander waited for the moment to strike..he conquered nearly the whole world before he was 32.

It is a Darwinian world of sink or swim..nobody teaches the process of navigating your way through life...those who get the process survive and those that don't fail.

Very true.. its in my blood.

I guess you can say, I've saw too much to stick with the corporate America lifestyle.

I have had many internships and resume looks decent enough for now. I think I'll be ok.

Definitely understand I must be patient. I just feel like me sitting around and making money for someone else is keeping me in a box.

Thanks for your input.

ItzaMe 04-03-2019 10:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Seahawk (Post 10415108)
Good stuff...great to read your responses.

A few more Q's:

- Investors? Willing to entertain investors? That changes a bunch of "stuff". The Securities and Exchange folks need looking after.

I had another business idea that I was looking for investors for via craigslist post(pretty funny but I had a good amount of people interested and might move forward which is crazy to me). But haven't thought about investors in our current business which is a good idea (one of the partners of the company we are basically mirroring has an 'investor' type partner in the business). We never saw a need to have investor since we have the funds needed to keep the ball rolling hmm..

- Exit strategy. Another trite but true saying in econ/business is that you form a company to sell it. Prepare an exit strategy and organize the company around what potential buyers will be looking for as they do their due diligence. I have a check list should you need it.

We have thought about this also. If someone was wanting to purchase us outright. I am definitely interested in this check list. Let me know best way to contact you if you would care to share.

- Five Year Plan. There are some really good spreadsheets available that help you chart your path, EBITDA, etc. If you haven't done one, you guys should.

Five year plans are scary since who knows how long I have left on this earth but definitely understand they are a must have. Will look into the spreadsheets, maybe you have one personally that you have used?

- In your ample spare time (:cool:) take an accounting class - basic stuff.

You reads my mind on this one. When I was finishing up school I was thinking about minoring in business or accounting since I had completed all the math and more difficult courses already. Need to think about taking some courses even tho I hated school.

As you can tell, I love this area of business. Sincerely, best of luck. Very exciting. My daughter, 25, is starting along the same arc in a different field.

Appreciate all the help. Your daughter is lucky to have such guidance.

ItzaMe 04-03-2019 10:18 AM

SIDE NOTE:

How do you busy people have time to work out, kick back a little in life?

I play volleyball and am in a basketball league once a week and its crazy to understand where people find time to do anything once they have a salary job.

javadog 04-03-2019 10:27 AM

Just wait until you get married, buy a house and have to take care of it, have a few kids and have to raise them, etc.

Zeke 04-03-2019 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by ItzaMe (Post 10415142)
SIDE NOTE:

How do you busy people have time to work out, kick back a little in life?

I play volleyball and am in a basketball league once a week and its crazy to understand where people find time to do anything once they have a salary job.

Well, I used to play volleyball at a considerable level and to do that and more life is more seamless. IOW, hourly flow from one to another. This does not afford lengthy commute time which is a total waste of good time. If you're active in the evenings then you aren't prone to while away at a TV tray. When you get home for some personal time, it is brief and rewarding or something is still wrong. You sleep well or something is still wrong.

I've lost all of that but I had it. It was good.

NYNick 04-03-2019 10:39 AM

We aren't bringing in much money. All profit goes towards building the business so I understand. The people who originally opened one up have gown to 20+ customers in about 3-4 years and we work with them and always ask questions when we run into issues.




Red flag. If you don't know where your money is going in this small business it's a huge mistake. Huge. Money (and the handling thereof) does very strange things to friends, relatives and partners. Trust no one and get a knowledgeable handle on what and where the money comes from and goes. I would never let anyone handle the money from my small business. Never. Besides, you need to know on a daily and weekly basis exactly where the business stands.

Part time small businesses are handicapped right from the start. Nobody is fully committed. Either quit and do it full time, or sell out and do your own thing. The best way to learn is to jump in and do it. Good luck, young one.

cabmandone 04-03-2019 10:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nb6179505 (Post 10414952)
Would like to know more. In the same boat sort of, 30 years old, about to have a kid, own a home. But always looking to take a risk if it pays off....

What sort of business?

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What I started out with back in 1999 was HVAC. Did Real Estate, Manufactured Homes all while dabbling in used construction equipment. After 2008 I started doing the used construction equipment full time and haven't looked back. MUCH happier doing just the construction equipment. 2008 actually simplified my life.

911 Rod 04-03-2019 10:47 AM

How are you going to survive financially if you quit your day job?
I lived off of my line of credit for 4 years when I started my business.
I say keep doing what you are doing until the picture is clear. And yes it's a shame you needed partners for your start up.

Seahawk 04-03-2019 10:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cabmando (Post 10415189)
What I started out with back in 1999 was HVAC. Did Real Estate, Manufactured Homes all while dabbling in used construction equipment. After 2008 I started doing the used construction equipment full time and haven't looked back. MUCH happier doing just the construction equipment. 2008 actually simplified my life.

Do you still do it, sell used construction equipment?

If so, please PM.

Sorry for the hijack but thanks for the tertiary hook-up ItzaMe!

fastfredracing 04-03-2019 11:07 AM

Some good advice given above about jumping off the cliff into the abyss. It would be nice to know that your new gig can sustain your life and keep your bills paid .
Being self employed, and working 12-14 hours a day, and being broke is a drag. Prepare for it Put some rainy day money in the bank ( or under your mattress ) to get you through the lean times.

95avblm3 04-03-2019 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by tabs (Post 10415107)
You are a hustler. You are always thinking and have the guts to give it a try...you have the potential to make it big.

A job working for somebody elses hustle is just that a job..you do what they want for a buck. Sometimes that serves a purpose..figure out what is best for you..staying in that job for awhile gives you a track record..in case you need it..

Think about it..mull it over for awhile and revisit to see if it still makes sense. In other words think before you jump. Think of the angles. The pros and cons. Weigh it out. Talk about it to see if you missed something.

Then there is what you might call biding your time..for the window of opportunity to open. There is a proper moment to move when everything is just right. It is called patience. Alexander waited for the moment to strike..he conquered nearly the whole world before he was 32.

It is a Darwinian world of sink or swim..nobody teaches the process of navigating your way through life...those who get the process survive and those that don't fail.

Tabs is right on with these comments... and I think it boils down to patience... patience waiting for the right time to move, patience to spend the time building your resume (whether as an entrepreneur or engineer), patience building your business and your nest egg.

I feel like I didn’t learn this lesson until I was 30. To be clear, I don’t really have an entrepreneurial spirit per se but it took me until 30 to realize I needed to focus on becoming good at what I do and not worried about not having free time or being pigeon holed in a particular role. Once I started to learn that, doors started to open as I developed skill and found myself getting more word of mouth opportunities doing projects that are fulfilling. I too am a mechanical engineer and at 40, I am working toward being able to rely solely on freelance engineering work part time so that I can pursue other passions whether or not they are revenue generating.

So my advice is to not close doors. If your 9-5 is a good resume builder and not soul-sucking, keep at it while you continue to build your business. Don’t be afraid to work long hours now because I guarantee that in the long run, it will set you up for success in multiple avenues.

...and while YMMV, the knowledge you gain and people you meet and develop relationships with will make your life more fulfilling as you get older. I really don’t feel like I hit my stride until my 30s.

Good luck!


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