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GH85Carrera 01-14-2021 11:14 AM

What phobia do you have if any?
 
The thread on MRIs has several guys admitting claustrophobia. That seems weird to me, as it is an open tube, not a tiny box.

To my knowledge I don't have a phobia of any sort. Certainly a respect of dangerous things, but that is just common sense.

I have worked on processors in very small dark-rooms in very cramped area, no issue.
I own a Cessna 182 for my business and certainly have no fear of flying.
I have held boa constrictors nad pythons.
My mom used to have a tarantula and I let it crawl around on my hands. I do not handle household spiders or outside spiders, but I have no real fear of them.
Same for snakes. I certainly will stay far back from any poisonous snake but again common sense, not hysterical fear of a garter snake or harmless snake.
I have had to speak in front of crowds. I am not great at it, but I did not have any problems.

I think Mike Rowe has to be the number one, no phobia man on the planet. He has been there done that on every crazy phobia known to man. I have never jumped on alligators, milked venomous snakes and spiders, hung on the side of a tall building, craw into tiny spots to do maintenance, he has done it all.

So on scale of 1 to 10 with a one as a Barney Fife afraid of everything and a 10 as a Mike Rowe and willing to do anything within the limits of common sense and safety where do you rank?

I would rank myself as a 8.5 to 9.0.

Evans, Marv 01-14-2021 11:25 AM

I don't have any I can think of either. Likewise I don't think there's anything wrong with using common sense. There are things I very much dislike - black widows - and my wife has a tatantula for a pet. I laugh when I see or a video a 200 lb. man jumping up on furniture when he sees a mouse. I've been in a few instances where people who panicked or acted irrational duriing dangerous situations made things potentially worse for themselves & people around them.

Bill Douglas 01-14-2021 11:25 AM

I don't know if it's a phobia, but I wash my hands about 50 times a day.

If I've eaten something and touched it I'm almost in pain until I've washed my hands. Very weird. And it's nothing about cleanliness as I eat food I've dropped on the floor LOL

Seahawk 01-14-2021 11:28 AM

Fire.

I know water (surfed and kayaked for 50 years), fly, climbed, SERE school, dated Latina's...

The Navy Shipboard firefighting school in San Diego f'ing terrified me. I did it but the flight response was strong.

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GH85Carrera 01-14-2021 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Seahawk (Post 11182230)
Fire.

I know water (surfed and kayaked for 50 years), fly, climbed, SERE school, dated Latina's...

The Navy Shipboard firefighting school in San Diego f'ing terrified me. I did it but the flight response was strong.

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That is not a phobia! That is smart. Fire is bad pookie. A phobia is you can't light a fire in the fire place using a match.

flatbutt 01-14-2021 11:32 AM

I'm afraid of being afraid so I'm afraid that I'm not afraid of anything.

JavaBrewer 01-14-2021 11:32 AM

Heights, or more likely falling from height. I have zero issues flying, even when with my pilot friend in his piper cub with the cabin sides folded down. But standing on elevated position is not good. Example, the wood grandstands you find on sports fields, I cannot go up more than a couple rows. Outside stair cases are also no go. Heck my knees start knocking inside a building more than a few stories tall. I thought open water diving would terrify me but at 100' feet deep have floated over the 20K foot drop off in Grand Cayman with not a care in the world. Strange.

Nostril Cheese 01-14-2021 11:52 AM

Driving over giant bridges. Like the Golden Gate. Only started happening in the last 10 years. No idea why.

masraum 01-14-2021 12:03 PM

I'm not aware of myself having any phobia. I can imagine that I might not like REALLY tight spaces. Like when you see some spelunkers wriggle through a tiny hole or narrow crevice to get into a cavern on the other side. But I've crawled under things and been in small spaces without ever freaking out.

I think spiders and snakes are interesting. I've touched/held snakes and a caiman (the reptilian). I've nearly touched some spiders or watched them really closely, but I'm also not likely to hold or play with a large ugly spider.

I've jumped out of a perfectly good plane, and climbed trees and been on top of buildings, but I'm not likely to stand on the ledge at the top of a tall building.

Things that I think I would do.

I think I could/would do this if I needed to.
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I am pretty sure I would not do this.
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I would LOVE to do this
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I would probably not push it to the extreme
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I think I could manage a box of snakes.
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I could not, would not manage my head in a box of tarantulas.
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I'm with Glen, I figure I'm an 8.5-9.0. I figure Mike Rowe is a 9.0 - 9.5. To be a 10.0, you have to throw caution and common sense to the wind and be willing to do anything. The folks that climb crazy tall buildings and hang off of them, those are probably a 10.0 (although they may be able to hang from a 50 story antenna tower by their fingertips but be deathly afraid of spiders).

I watched a documentary on Jeb Corliss. He has always been "fearless" and when he was younger was suicidal, but IIRC, when he realized that he could do extreme daredevil stuff, that took away his suicidal feelings. It's like he has a need to do extreme stuff. And he says that he's not remotely self-destructive, because he's got lots of experience and each stunt that he does is meticulously planned to make it as safe as possible (because he doesn't want to die).

My guess is that if you find someone that's a 10.0, that they may have a psychological need.

masraum 01-14-2021 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Bill Douglas (Post 11182219)
I don't know if it's a phobia, but I wash my hands about 50 times a day.

If I've eaten something and touched it I'm almost in pain until I've washed my hands. Very weird. And it's nothing about cleanliness as I eat food I've dropped on the floor LOL

That sounds more compulsive than phobic.

masraum 01-14-2021 12:11 PM

One thing that I've seen mentioned here on the board before is that some folks have mentioned is that they don't like to cross a bridge or be in places like cliffs or tall buildings because they are afraid that they'll jump even though or because, they don't want to die. So it's an odd fear. I've heard that my grandmother has the same fear.

A related fear that I have, but it hasn't impacted my life, is that I'm afraid that if I get in a fight with someone, I'd kill them. I have no desire to kill anyone, and I have no reason to believe that I'm such an amazing fighter (never actually been in a fight) that it could accidentally happen.

red-beard 01-14-2021 12:13 PM

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red-beard 01-14-2021 12:15 PM

I do not have a fear of heights. I have an aversion to falling from high places....

red-beard 01-14-2021 12:16 PM

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masraum 01-14-2021 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by red-beard (Post 11182334)
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I'd probably do that, although I think I'd be darn tired. i'm not sure that I'd get to the top under my own power.

VINMAN 01-14-2021 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Seahawk (Post 11182230)
Fire.

I know water (surfed and kayaked for 50 years), fly, climbed, SERE school, dated Latina's...

The Navy Shipboard firefighting school in San Diego f'ing terrified me. I did it but the flight response was strong.

http://forums.pelicanparts.com/uploa...1610656125.jpg

Quote:

Originally Posted by GH85Carrera (Post 11182234)
That is not a phobia! That is smart. Fire is bad pookie. A phobia is you can't light a fire in the fire place using a match.


You get used to it! :p

KFC911 01-14-2021 12:29 PM

^^^ .... knowing damn well he ain't talkin' to me ;)

No effn' way .... RESPECT!

I was skeered to click on this thread .... I won't be back .... lotsa reasons :D

beatnavy 01-14-2021 12:47 PM

Flying in poor visibility (as a passenger - I'm not a pilot). I love flying when it's a bright blue sky or crystal clear night. I'm not a fan of bad weather and poor visibility. I like my bus drivers up front to have LOTS of visibility in front of them.

VINMAN 01-14-2021 12:47 PM

Really don't have any phobias expect for one that results in me being the butt of jokes and scorn by my brothers in the fire service. My fear of ladders.

The ironic thing is I'm a technical rescue specialist. I have no problem hanging by a 1/2 rope from a tower crane , radio tower or off the side of a building a few hundred feet in the air. Iv'e roped out of helicopters. I have zero fear of heights.
But make me use a 24' extension ladder to go on a roof, I freak. Nobody can understand it.


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GH85Carrera 01-14-2021 12:53 PM

Many years ago I helped the Oklahoma City Zoo raise some money for the education department.

I set up a 4x5 camera system and a Polaroid film adapter. We could take a photo of a visitor while they held either a 6 fool long boa constrictor, a 14 inch alligator, a ground Owl and some other critters. Lots of people wanted to hold the snake.

Lots of people (mostly women) ran like it was the chain saw massacre guy coming at them with a chainsaw. We tried to get them to come closer and about half actually came over and touched the snake like it was the bravest thing ever. A few actually held it, and bought a picture of them holding the snake.

100% of the money went to the Docents education fund. They paid the cost of the film, and I provided a weekend of free labor. Of course several docents helped and worked for free as well. My mom was the number one on the list of most hours spent as a docent at the zoo for many years.

It was interesting to see some people with genuine terror of a totally harmless snake. Some guys were more afraid than their little daughters. It was hard not to laugh when one 6 foot Marine looking type of guy backed off 15 feet and his little 7 year old daughter and came and held the snake. Dad stood so far in the background he was hardly in the picture.

Sooner or later 01-14-2021 12:54 PM

Probably wasps. 6 on a scale of 10.

When I was a kid three of us were throwing rolled up newspapers at a giant wasp nest. When we finally hit it they came swarming us. Dozens of them latched onto Craig and covered him up. He was on the ground hollering and screaming. I didn't get physically stung. I only had to outrun Craig.

Seahawk 01-14-2021 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by GH85Carrera (Post 11182234)
That is not a phobia! That is smart. Fire is bad pookie. A phobia is you can't light a fire in the fire place using a match.

Never thought of it that way.

I am good to go!

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Originally Posted by Nostril Cheese (Post 11182287)
Driving over giant bridges. Like the Golden Gate. Only started happening in the last 10 years. No idea why.

My partner can't drive over elevated bridges, and we have a few, two lane, high off the water bridges I love driving over. He becomes distraught.

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When we meet clients here I'll meet him in Virginia and he'll jump in with me. He can manage if he doesn't look out. I never poke fun, his fear is real.

herr_oberst 01-14-2021 01:19 PM

I can't decide if I have every phobia or none at all and just a VERY finely honed sense of self preservation!

Eric Hahl 01-14-2021 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by herr_oberst (Post 11182455)
I can't decide if I have every phobia or none at all and just a VERY finely honed sense of self preservation!

Good answer!

Nostril Cheese 01-14-2021 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Seahawk (Post 11182441)
When we meet clients here I'll meet him in Virginia and he'll jump in with me. He can manage if he doesn't look out. I never poke fun, his fear is real.

I really dont know why it freaks me out so much.... It just sort of happened.. I wasnt molested on a bridge, no alien abduction or rectal probe...

But yeah, If I dont look, I can do it. Went over the Oakland/SF Bay Bridge last year and I had to concentrate on my breathing and staying calm. I had never understood panic attacks up until that point.

Bob Kontak 01-14-2021 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Nostril Cheese (Post 11182539)
Went over the Oakland/SF Bay Bridge last year and I had to concentrate on my breathing and staying calm. I had never understood panic attacks up until that point.

Same for me in 2007 at St. Paul's Cathedral. Climbed all the steps to the top. Went out on the little upper observation deck to check out the scenery and it hit me after a minute. I had taken pics, walked around out there then boom. Full panic. Had to face the building as close to the center as possible and hugged it getting to the door.

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Shaun @ Tru6 01-14-2021 03:33 PM

spiders. I'm sure it came from the huge wood spiders in our cellar when we heated mostly with wood as a kid. They were massive, fast as lightning and could jump. Today, tiny spiders are fine and sort of cute jumping around. But big spiders, whole other thing.

5 years ago or so I had huge orb weavers in my garage. One day I opened the door and wasn't looking and was face to face with a spider whose body as big as a 12mm marble. Scared the f out of me. And they were everywhere. Had a can of spray tack in my hand and covered them in glue.

wdfifteen 01-14-2021 03:40 PM

Heights - 20 feet on a ladder is enough for me
Enclosed spaces - I have had nightmares about being in an enclosed space and not being able to get out. I'm pretty sure I'll die trapped in a flaming car on the side of the interstate.
Snakes - No explanation. It just is.
Ships - Again, I can't explain it. When I'm on one I'm fine, but standing on a dock next to a towering ship gives me the willies.
Water - I don't like being in water over my head, though I make myself do it. Related to ships, one of the most irrationally terrifying moments of my life was skuba diving and looking up and seeing the hull of the boat above me. I was OK as long as I was looking down.
OK - too much sharing going on here.

beatnavy 01-14-2021 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Nostril Cheese (Post 11182539)
I really dont know why it freaks me out so much.... It just sort of happened.. I wasnt molested on a bridge, no alien abduction or rectal probe...

But yeah, If I dont look, I can do it. Went over the Oakland/SF Bay Bridge last year and I had to concentrate on my breathing and staying calm. I had never understood panic attacks up until that point.

I've had a similar experience going over the Verrazano Narrows Bridge in bumper to bumper traffic with my family. All of sudden felt heart rate / BP go up, and I couldn't wait to get off that bridge. It looked so high while I was stuck there. I've gone over dozens of other bridges before and since and never had an issue. I go across the Chesapeake Bay bridge a lot, and I never even think about it.

That's almost worth a thread to itself: what bridge freaks you out.

cabmandone 01-14-2021 04:24 PM

I have Phobophobia... I'm a hot mess.

Snakes, spiders, mice, they all freak me out. Probably has something to do with when I worked in crawlspaces and some of them were so tight you couldn't roll over without being between floor joists.

herr_oberst 01-14-2021 04:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nostril Cheese (Post 11182287)
Driving over giant bridges. Like the Golden Gate. Only started happening in the last 10 years. No idea why.

Saves you money on tolls! I'll bet the Bridge of the Gods over the Columbia isn't one of your regular routes. (I see motorcycles on that bridge! What?!)

masraum 01-14-2021 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaun @ Tru6 (Post 11182642)
spiders. I'm sure it came from the huge wood spiders in our cellar when we heated mostly with wood as a kid. They were massive, fast as lightning and could jump. Today, tiny spiders are fine and sort of cute jumping around. But big spiders, whole other thing.

5 years ago or so I had huge orb weavers in my garage. One day I opened the door and wasn't looking and was face to face with a spider whose body as big as a 12mm marble. Scared the f out of me. And they were everywhere. Had a can of spray tack in my hand and covered them in glue.

Years ago, we used to go to a house in the country owned by my wife's grandmother. It was on 100+ acres. There was a 1/4 mile driveway through the woods from the gate to the house. We'd often go Fri night when I got off work, arrive in the dark and stay the weekend. Certain times of the year, we'd arrive and there would be webs across the tunnel of trees that we drove through from the gate to get to the house. That meant that the webs were 15-20' across, probably 50-100 of them if there were any, and the spiders were big bulbous grayish brown spiders at least 1/2" diameter. Driving down the driveway, you'd hear them thud against the roof of the car as we drove through their web. That was creepy, but not a big deal. What really sucked was then having to get out of the car, that I knew could have been covered in big spiders in complete darkness (before cell phones, so no source of light). I'm not afraid of spiders, but I also don't want them crawling on me without my knowledge (or big ones with my knowledge, but that would be far better than without)

I'm not sure what's worse, thinking you could walk face first into a web with one of these with a 1/2" body and 1" including legs.
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Or, when I was in college and would stay with my aunt and uncle who lived opposite orange groves. I might be in the shower and realize one of these 2" bastards was 12" from my head on the wall, or sitting on the couch and have one of these pop out from behind the couch next to me.

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unclebilly 01-14-2021 05:14 PM

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speeder 01-14-2021 06:16 PM

Interesting subject. I was once told by some uncle that fear of heights is directly related to intelligence. Makes sense, I have very little fear of heights and I'm a bit of a maroon. :)

I have only one full-scale phobia and it's sharks. Back in 1974, or whenever it was, I was 15 and one of my friends thought that it would be funny to drop some acid and go see this new movie, "Jaws." BIG mistake...we heard that there was a mechanical shark and thought that it would be laughably fake or something, I guess. Scarred me for life. I live in Los Angeles and swim at the beach once in a while but it's always there, the thought of being in the water w sharks. :eek:

Other than that, I have a few very minor phobias, almost more like personality quirks. For a long time, I detested going in supermarkets so much that I ate out all meals. I'm talking for decades, either restaurants or quick bite stuff like tacos or a burger. Lots of take-out food brought home. I just really hated going to big supermarkets that much.

It's subsided and during the pandemic in Wisconsin last year, I went to supermarkets all the time and started cooking at home every night. There was no choice because restaurants did not really exist where I was. I even started grocery shopping at Walmart, which has shockingly good groceries and great prices. Could not believe myself.

I also can't valet park my car but I wouldn't call it a phobia. Just OCD.

look 171 01-14-2021 06:30 PM

Height. I can seat in that bubble of a helicopter with no issues, roller coasters, fun stuff. I am like Java, walk up to the edge of a building on a windy day, I can't look down. I feel dizzy and my knees will buckle. The other is tight spaces, not like an elevator or MRI but really tight like a cave where one might be stuck or wedged in there and not get out. I have been under people's homes, tight attics, and have no fear, but getting stuck and not able to move freaks me out in a cave. Gone cave snorkeling in southern Mexico without any problems but didn't get in the really tight and narrow passages.

Roaches freaks me out. Dislike them.

red-beard 01-14-2021 06:35 PM

I'm not afraid of Spiders - from my front yard

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A930Rocket 01-14-2021 07:12 PM

Going up a ladder or getting on a roof, no problem. Getting off or coming down, big problem. Probably because I fell off a roof onto a sunroom roof 10’ below and between two skylights coming down a ladder.

Germs. Don’t like them and wash my hands or use sanitizer a lot.

And the big one...panic attacks. I don’t know why, but it started 44 years ago. Got so bad, I couldn’t leave home. Self medicated, but paid the price the next day. Now it’s a daily regimen of a few meds and it’s controlled for the past 35 years. Better living through pharmaceuticals.

look 171 01-14-2021 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by A930Rocket (Post 11182927)
Going up a ladder or getting on a roof, no problem. Getting off or coming down, big problem. Probably because I fell off a roof onto a sunroom roof 10’ below and between two skylights coming down a ladder.

Germs. Don’t like them and wash my hands or use sanitizer a lot.

And the big one...panic attacks. I don’t know why, but it started 44 years ago. Got so bad, I couldn’t leave home. Self medicated, but paid the price the next day. Now it’s a daily regimen of a few meds and it’s controlled for the past 35 years. Better living through pharmaceuticals.

Happened to my plumber. One day it just hit him at lunch. He froze and sat there and couldn't move in cold sweat. He's on some meds but I think he's off it now. Happened to my close friend I grew up with. I got a call one day and had to go get him. He stopped in the middle of the fwy and couldn't move sweating like if he just walked out of a shower with cloth on. Luck would have it, traffic was pretty heavy. He couldn't drive his car off to the shoulder. He got back in a couple weeks later and driving was not the same anymore. he ans I used to race down the canyons as kids and was a pretty good driver too. I noticed the death grip on the steering wheel and face full of sweat dripping down his nose when he crosses a bridge or drive up into the hills through those curvy roads. These are the very same roads we raised hell on when we were kids. Yep, Angeles Crest hwy, just right in our back yard. Doc wants to put him on drugs, but he refuses. He's a bit better now then 5 years ago. We are both 54 now. So this happened in his mid 40s also.

Nostril Cheese 01-14-2021 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by herr_oberst (Post 11182769)
Saves you money on tolls! I'll bet the Bridge of the Gods over the Columbia isn't one of your regular routes. (I see motorcycles on that bridge! What?!)

I wont drive on the Fremont or Marquam bridges..

ckissick 01-14-2021 08:55 PM

I'm not so sure that fear of heights is necessarily a phobia in all cases. I think it's more of a disorientation. I've been on top of Half Dome and looking straight down 4000 feet is just not something we're used to. It gives me the willies if I stand near the edge. But if I were roped in, I could rappel over the edge, no problem. I don't know what to make of that.


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