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Rick Lee 08-13-2021 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by sugarwood (Post 11423959)
Huh? Why is someone giving you a check to mail somewhere else? Why don't they mail it themselves? Why are you even involved with forwarding money ? What kind of 18th century business model is this ?

She's 89 and there are exactly two companies that will insure people that old. I got her the cheapest one. She doesn't drive and she uses a walker. She had signed up a few mos. earlier, but her first bank draft bounced because her vision is so bad, she mistakenly took too much out of an ATM the day before that bank draft. It was a Saturday and she couldn't get the cash back into the bank before the draft at 12:01am on Monday. Kinda weird, but I believe her. Again, this demographic has a fanatical belief in life insurance. She asked me to rewrite her policy and gave me cash. This is the way it works. If you can believe this, there are still debit agents out there who personally collect cash each week or month from customers. They have a BINGO-like card they stamp. I couldn't believe it the first time I ran into one of those. But they're still around. I don't deal with a lot of folks who just pull up their bank statement on their iPhone and deposit checks by scanning with their phone.

BTW, the vast majority of this demographic do not have a checkbook, even if they have a checking acct.

Rick Lee 08-13-2021 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by sugarwood (Post 11423970)
What the hell is a $2k life insurance policy? Covers cremation?
He's paying $500/year for a $2k life insurance policy ?

$5k for $60 is $700/year. Break even is 7 years.
So, if he dies before 7 years, it was worth it?

I have customers who didn't go to school and call me to ask how to spell words they need to write on their envelopes to mail in money orders. If you don't deal with this demographic, you wouldn't believe they exist. Even the ones who left school in 8th grade, I would think know how to read. But it can be a challenge. A very good and loyal customer wanted to add coverage a few weeks ago and asked me to add $64/mo and $79/mo for her to make sure she had it right. Then she told me she had inherited a property in downtown Phoenix a while ago, where her deadbeat brother squats. She had no idea how to find out its market value. I asked the address and pulled it up on Zillow. $134k and this is obviously the time to sell. She asked what that kind of money means. She runs the bakery at the local grocery store, pays $896/mo for her apt., both sons incarcerated. There are MILLIONS like her.

Rick Lee 08-13-2021 05:29 PM

When I have downtime between appointments (often no shows) and/or cannot read the handwriting on the lead cards people mail in, I go door knock them. It's a character-building experience and my absolute gold mine, largest customer is a result of that tactic. Yesterday I DK'ed a 55 y/o woman in an apt complex. It wasn't ghetto, but not high end either. And she looked somewhat normal, even attractive. I showed her the card she had filled out and explained what it was about. She said she didn't need life insurance because her mom was a millionaire. I said, "So are my folks, but they wouldn't let me live in a place like this, if they were supporting me." No sale. Amazing, eh?

Racerbvd 08-13-2021 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by sugarwood (Post 11423950)
20-somethings who spend all their money on cars.
Then piss money on stupid crap like slot mags, Cragar SS, louvers, cherry bomb straight pipe exhaust, tunnel rams, hood scoops, blowers, NOS, Alpine stereo, jacked up rear end, traction bars, pinstriping, and wheelie bars
That's why he's poor.

You forgot the Pioneer Super Tuner III :D

tdw28210 08-14-2021 04:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Z-man (Post 11423555)
The success sequence is a study that showed the following three things differentiate the majority of those who are poor vs. those who are wealthy. If someone who is poor following these three simple steps, their path out of poverty is greatly increased:
1. Get a high school diploma
2. Get a job
3. Get married before you have babies.

More info on the “Success Sequence: can be found here:
https://www.wsj.com/articles/the-sequence-is-the-secret-to-success-1522189894

I would add three points to those steps:

1. Learn about finance. Teach children in schools basic finance. Simple stuff like how to balance a checkbook. The importance of paying bills on time. How compound interest can help you. What a mortgage looks like. How to pay off debt. But none of these concepts are taught in school. So the kids rely on learning this from their parents and peers. And as seen in Rick’s examples - a lot of these parents aren’ good examples, and aren’t equipped to teach their kids about finances!

2. Live below your means: I have lived by a simple rule: live below your means. If you an do that comfortably, I would venture to say that you are wealthy. I know many lower to mid middle class families that live below their means. I consider them to be more wealthy than the person who makes $250k a year, but spends $300K on lavish items like summer homes, fancy cars, fast boats, and luxury items. If Mr. Richie Rich were making $400K a year, then that’s a different story! But no matter how much you make, if you live above your means, you are setting yourself up for financial disaster!

3. Practice delayed gratification: Start putting money into long term savings as soon as you can! This holds true especially if your place of employment has some type of 401K plan. But if it doesn’t, it is still advisable to put money into long term investments. Even with mediocre returns, over time, that money can grow into something that can help support you! At least Rick’s customer’s kinda understand this notion, but had they learned about basic finance in school (see point #1), they would understand how they can make their money grow better for them!

So in my opinion, these six steps can be a springboard into helping get out from below the poverty line.

Getting off my soapbox…

There it is. Laid out in black and white with the research to back it up. Now ask yourself; how effective we are a society and as a government in incentivizing the positive behaviors and DIS-incentivizing the negative ones? If you're honest with yourself, you'll lilely be saddened by what you realize.

Y'all get back to me with your thoughts. I am off to go watch some reruns of "Teen Mom 2" on MTV. It's so cool how these unwed girls are so FAMOUS now. /s

sugarwood 08-14-2021 05:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Rick Lee (Post 11424055)
When I have downtime between appointments (often no shows) and/or cannot read the handwriting on the lead cards people mail in, I go door knock them.

You cold call selling bull**** insurance to low income people?
Seems predatory and unethical.

Rick Lee 08-14-2021 06:01 AM

I don't cold call at all. These people mail in lead cards, asking for me to contact them about final expense insurance. I run appointments they set with me by phone. 20% of them no-show, so I door knock them at a later date when I happen to be in the area. But I don't do that without their handwritten lead card in my hand to show them why I'm there. 90% of my business is fixing whatever mess they got into with more expensive insurance sold by unscrupulous agents. Again, this demographic has a fanatical belief in life insurance. i don't have to convince them they want or need it when they already have it and are overpaying for it. When i can save someone $25/mo for the same or more coverage, sometimes get them thousands of dollars cash back in the process, well, I sleep just fine at night.

wdfifteen 08-14-2021 06:39 AM

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Originally Posted by pwd72s (Post 11423517)
This thread points to a crying need for high schools to teach basic money management skills.

So true. It’s up to local school boards to put it in the curriculum.
I don’t remember how I learned how to manage money. It didn’t come from school or my parents.

But a lot of people won’t be told what to do. They live their lives the way they want and no amount of encouragement, cajoling, or force is going to convince them there is a better way.

Z-man’s steps to success are so basic, yet so many people don’t believe in them. Folks I know (relatives) actually thought my siblings and I were being pessimistic by planning for the future. I kid you not.
They stumbled through life with no plan or direction, confident that God would provide or things would somehow work out. Parenthood was something that just “happened” so they’ve produced a dozen or so children and grandchildren who are following the same path. They are almost all overweight smokers and a few died early. And the cycle continues.

herr_oberst 08-14-2021 06:49 AM

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Originally Posted by wdfifteen (Post 11424448)
And the cycle continues.

And a new word is added to the lexicon.

I shall use 'stubbled' as liberally as I can for the next few days. :-)

jhynesrockmtn 08-14-2021 06:49 AM

I worked for a few years managing an office for a non profit that did "representative payee" work. Most of our clients were on SSI which is supplemental income for the "disabled" that don't have enough work experience to have paid anything into the SS system. A few years back that got you about $750 per month.

There are folks that are legitimately disabled in this system. There are others that could work but the system discourages that by eliminating any payments when income comes in. If that work is seasonal or irregular in hours it gets really messed up. Many are afraid to even try. It's definitely generational. Folks with limited cognitive ability have kids that function the same. I've met with 3 generations of folks "in the system".

I've testified in front of panels of both SS management and the board that provides guidance to the SS system about making the system work better for folks who want to work. Any feedback basically falls on deaf ears. These are the stereotypical Govt. employees completely entrenched in a system that makes no sense.

It is a complex problem that would be difficult to fix. Yes, being poor is expensive. Poverty is generational. It becomes more difficult with increasingly limited opportunities for simple manual labor type jobs as manufacturing is shipped overseas and done more by computers/robots. Our society is not getting smarter so the problem will get worse. I hate to think what things will look like a few generations from today.

Dan J 08-14-2021 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by wdfifteen (Post 11423983)
Les,
Thank you for your post. I admire men like you.
We do the best that we can do, but they always go their own way, sometimes it's the way we would like, sometimes not. I know - our daughter has taken paths that gave us nightmares and still perplex us, and I swear we are the world's best, gold standard, award winning parents ever. :D:D
Anyway, bless you for taking her on, and prayers for a great future for her.

X1000 God bless you Les it ain't easy

Rick Lee 08-14-2021 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by jhynesrockmtn (Post 11424454)
I worked for a few years managing an office for a non profit that did "representative payee" work.

I've run into a few of these, all were pretty sad cases and I couldn't help them. Well, I'm not sure getting them insurance would have helped them, but they wanted it. One lady was pretty insistent I write her, but when I saw she was on Abilify, I had to find a different company for her, which raised the price. Then she started ranting about her payee and how he never approved anything she wanted to buy. So I knew it was time to walk.

Teaching money mgt skills is certainly something we need to do. But let's not put the cart before the horse. People need to learn very early on that they need to earn money by working and not depending on the gov't. for a bare subsistence. No kid whose parents are living in Section 8 housing and on SSDI is going to learn that lesson at home. When the gov't. is the keeper of the poor, it keeps them poor. But once they have decided to work and be productive, they can worry about the next problem - managing money. Of all the things I was warned about as a yute that would send my life into a serious wrong turn with little chance of course correction, no one told me that going on SSDI was the worst thing I could ever do. Not that I ever even considered it, but it's worse than heroin. If you're at all able bodied, you need to work. The kids with cerebral palsy bagging groceries at Frys make more $$ there than on SSDI. And that's still not much. But it has some dignity and chance of upward mobility.

svandamme 08-14-2021 07:52 AM

matrasses.. a good matrass saves you a lot of back pain and fatigue.
But poor people (or even younger people at start of career) can't afford any of that.

From a healthcare perspective but also economical perspective (happier m more productive workers, less sick time) it would be beneficial to somehow sponsor the purchase of a good quality ergonomic matrass when people go live on their own at 18 or so.

But it won't happen, because the cheap matrass companies would cry foul

sugarwood 08-14-2021 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Rick Lee (Post 11423477)
But the one constant I see that is a 110% guarantee of lifetime poverty is going on SS disability.

I'd like to hear more about this. Are you saying these people have to stop working forever so they don't lose the meager SSD benefit? Seems like a nasty trap to get stuck in.

fintstone 08-14-2021 07:54 AM

If one wants to understand why people are poor, they can just go to McDonalds or Burger King and watch the folks. Unless travelling, when I go, I often order on my phone app and take it home (saving on drinks), but sometimes I eat there. With the Ap, if you choose carefully, the price is usually about half as much (or less)...and we generally try to eat a moderate sized meal. My wife and I both eat well, typically from $4-6. There is almost always a 2 for 1 and most aps add points that can be saved and redeemed for even more food. I see similar couples spend $20 or more. Many take a bunch of kids who each order some sort of "meal" that is a massive amount of food and expensive...and walk out with a bill of $40 or more. I see the same folks in more expensive local restaurants where they seem to similarly spend massive amounts of money ordering every appetizer and desert on the menu in addition to expensive main course. Their meals are well above $100 while mine is about $25-$30. Sometimes I know the family. They eat out like this several times each week...some almost every day. Often they are one income families where the wage earner happily makes little more than minimum wage (with no interest in working overtime or preparing for a more difficult, higher paying job).

When I was young and poor, my family never ate in a restaurant. As an adult (and with my own kids)...it was a rare treat (as it is pretty inexpensive to cook yourself). A loaf of bread is a couple bucks (maybe $3) at Walmart and a pound of Oscar Meyer bologna is currently $2 and will make at least a dozen sandwiches (just bought some yesterday). I cannot imagine spending 2-3 hours of my work/income for McDonald s burgers for lunch (except on a very rare occasion)...much less 7-8 hrs for a meal at a relatively average chain restaurant. The cost for me is minutes of my day, yet I am still careful/frugal most of the time and prepare my own. The same folks live much the same way with almost every expense. Constant new cars and electronics, etc. It is little wonder they cannot save/invest and have no emergency fund. A little delayed gratification goes a long way.

wdfifteen 08-14-2021 08:06 AM

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Originally Posted by herr_oberst (Post 11424453)
And a new word is added to the lexicon.

I shall use 'stubbled' as liberally as I can for the next few days. :-)

OK, I fixed it.
It’s a good word though. Glad you will put it to use.

jhynesrockmtn 08-14-2021 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by sugarwood (Post 11424503)
I'd like to hear more about this. Are you saying these people have to stop working forever so they don't lose the meager SSD benefit? Seems like a nasty trap to get stuck in.

There are two similar but different things here. SSDI is social security disability income. You have to have worked enough and put enough into the system to get anything back. If you are disabled through a work injury, etc. you can qualify to get money from the system calculated based on how much you put in.

SSI is supplemental security income. It is a basic payment for those who have not put enough into the system. You still have to be qualified as disabled. You get a basic payment, around $750 to $800 per month.

If you work, these payments get reduced/eliminated. The rep payees have to report this income. The employers of course have to report to the IRS. There is often a time lag. I've seen folks get temp work, earn money for a few months and then get laid off. The SS administration then stops their benefit months later so no income comes in. The SS administration has put in place a very complex set of rules to protect the disability determination status for those trying to get off of these payments long term. It is difficult to understand and impossible for most to actually manage through. $750 buys you almost nothing when you think about what it costs to pay rent, insurance, etc. I've sat with many and shown them the math of what even 20 hours/week at minimum wage gets you vs. this basic payment. It doesn't matter most of the time. They protect their status like it was their life blood when in fact it is a life sentence of poverty.

Imagine if the system just let them work, keep their status and their basic payment until they were earning say 4 times that and then reduce/eliminate it after they had a few years of solid earnings history. Self sufficiency.

Rick Lee 08-14-2021 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by sugarwood (Post 11424503)
I'd like to hear more about this. Are you saying these people have to stop working forever so they don't lose the meager SSD benefit? Seems like a nasty trap to get stuck in.

Most didn't work to begin with, which is why their eventual SSDI will be next to nothing. It's one thing if you have 20+ years of work under your belt, you've paid into the system for a while and then get disabled in a car accident. Your SSDI will be based on your highest earning years or quarters. I met a lady on SSDI who seemed otherwise normal and I never got out of her why she was on SSDI, but she was allowed to work a few hours a week as a Wal-Mart greeter and not lose her SSDI. She was one of the motivated one. The first appt I ever went on in this job, the place looked like a halfway house. The woman was HIV positive, which gets you a rubber stamped SSDI approval, no matter how able-bodied you might be. She was selling onesie cigarettes off her coffee table to supplement that income. I've met plenty of 50-something folks who were HIV positive, though undetectable, perfectly able-bodied and normal, but who got on SSDI as soon as they could and just do nothing but wallow in poverty.

fintstone 08-14-2021 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Rick Lee (Post 11424491)
...Of all the things I was warned about as a yute that would send my life into a serious wrong turn with little chance of course correction, no one told me that going on SSDI was the worst thing I could ever do. Not that I ever even considered it, but it's worse than heroin...

Yes, in fact, any income-based social welfare serves as an disincentive to hard work and good choices. It is pretty appealing to be able to sleep in, not be ordered around by a sadistic boss, and generally do as you please all day (yet live relatively the same lifestyle). It is pretty hard to get out of that trap once the bait is taken. The fact that years of hard work would likely result in promotion/better wages/benefits is too nebulous for most when the reality of a the present and a lifetime of work confronts them.

fintstone 08-14-2021 08:12 AM

Requirements are pretty low for SSDI:

"If you become disabled when you are 31 or older, you must have worked at least 5 of the last 10 years to pass the recent work test. Put another way, you will need to have earned 20 credits (one quarter of work equals one credit) in the 10 years immediately before you became disabled.

If you become disabled when you are between 24 and 31, you must have worked at least half the time since turning 21. For example, if you become disabled at age 29, you must have worked at least four years out of the last eight years (or have earned 16 credits in the last eight years). If you become disabled when you are 27, you must have worked at least three years out of the last six years (or have earned 12 credits in the last six years).

If you become disabled when you are under 24, you must have worked at least one and a half years in the three-year period before disability (or have earned 6 credits in the last three years).

There is an exception to these rules for certain blind applicants"


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