Jerry is wise!!^^

some of us think way too highly of ourselves. I just KNOW there is a forum of women just chatting about the blow hard men they have to endure on the dating apps. I work with single ladies and they say the men on the Apps are a bunch of a-holes that dont match their self proclaimed accolades.

I help my wife host nurse dinner parties. I cook, put out the food, make myself a plate and go hide and let them do their sisterhood stuff...not my place. my wife said I am everyone's dream type. hahaha.... if my wife passed away..I am going to grieve, and then throw a dinner party..hahhaha..

true story. I was fishing the Russian river. a gaggle of women go kayaking by and they wanted a selfie...I offered to take their group pic. they group up next to each other, kayak side by side. I aim camera..didnt like what I saw, so I stood up in my kayak and snapped the pic with a mild Birds Eye view.. they OHHHHH! one lady asked me out right there....her friend said the best complement I have ever received..."no honey..no way he is single".

I paddled off, met my friend Tommy and asked, "tell me you heard that?"!!!

hahhaha...forget judging by the covers people. test the waters, exit politely if it is a no go...

I think a better approach is to simply go do things you want. You'll do something you enjoy, probably meet women doing it, and importantly, they'll be able to gain an interest in you.

Think about it, there's about three times as many men as women on any given online dating site. Why is that? Because the women men want are getting asked out at Lowe's, the grocery store, church, as well as bars and restaurants. Online dating for women is terrible. It consumes lots of time to wade though countless pics of nondiscript guys, with little to no bio, that all think "hey" is a clever opening line. And a lot of the women online aren't really interested in dating. The validation is free and easy, while meeting some guy you know nothing about is scary.

Remember guys, women fall in love with our ears. A guy that talks and flirts with me gets better looking with every passing moment. Your photo holding a fish does nothing.