Your view on prostitution, please

[M.D. Holloway]

Originally posted by fastpat
You, and others, can't really handle more than one dimension per post.

I swear there are times that fastpast is an AI program yet where is the I? All retorts are always of the same stuff.

[RoninLB]

A man didn't come home one night. The next day he told his wife that he had slept over at a friend's house. The woman called her husband's 10 best friends. Eight of them confirmed that he had slept over, and two claimed that he was still there.

[livi]

Put it this way:

Could any of you Gentlemen be persuaded to let your wife go out and make money " the easy way" ?

[Joeaksa]

Originally posted by livi
Put it this way:

Could any of you Gentlemen be persuaded to let your wife go out and make money " the easy way" ?

Sure! She could do it one time and when she returned home her things would be on the front doorstep. I would not do it to any woman and cannot see any way that I would allow a woman to do it while married to me.

Joe

[livi]

No shiit, Joe ! That was a low odds question.

[Superman]

That's just selfish. What about sharing, huh?

[svandamme]

legally, it can't be stopped, so might as well regulate it , for health, safety , crime prevention reasons

morally , i think it's terrible that it exists

i've been in a cathouse once, real drunk, half dragged in there by my drinking buddy
(very rich kid, who turned out had some issues with cathouses and uncontrollable desires), and was to curious or drunk to say "no way , that's wrong"

did end up going upstairs, and i just talked and ended up listening to that girl...i felt sick and depressed for several days


those women who say they look at it , as just a job
i don't believe them, nobody want's a complaining whore, so they just keep up appearances to not chase away clientele, those who do it long enough , grown enough thick skin , go emotionally numb some more then the other

i'm sure there are some proper nympho's out there, who actually enjoy beeing banged all the time, but those are a minority, and even those, it's not quite normal, isn't it a psychiatric definaition in the first place?"nymphomania" ?

most women in prostitution , did not have a childhood dream of selling their body... they got suckered in , in times of weaknes.. and a lot of them if not most, can't get out because of money problems, drug problems, or just because they aren't strong or smart enough to do something else...

[Superman]

The Muse is gone now. And Mark, my stuff is still here.

Very interesting woman. She probably fits into the nympho category though again, she and I had neither a romantic nor sexual relationship. She boinks with men (and women) for one of two reasons. One is chemistry. The other is exchange (money or whatever). Chemistry has little to do with appearance and attractiveness (plainly, since she was able to keep her hands off Superman). She leaves a trail of happy and/or exhausted people in her path and usually with some personal growth matters to consider. FWIW, she does not use drugs. In fact, she also has no criminal record of any kind. I don't even think she's had a speeding ticket.

Stijn, she does not whine, though her work is emotionally and spiritually exhausting. She sacrifices for her craft. But again, her principle craft is not prostitution. Once again, this woman is a Muse. Very difficult to explain. The lives she touches get shaken up. She makes people see things that were hidden and she is a catalyst for personal growth. And for the naysayers and skeptics, I will offer this: She is, among other things, clairvoyant. She denies this, denies the hocus pocus theory saying that people give subtle signals that she picks up. All I can say is that it is spooky, to say the least, when I ask myself a question in my mind and she speaks the answer out loud. Or when I'd have a thought and she'd ask "What are you thinking right now about your friend Joe and what brought him into your mind?" Spooky.

She even said I would be viewing people differently now. She was right. I can't read peoples' minds but I can tell if they are awake or not. Few are. This is getting to be an exciting life, and I appreciate what she has done for my enlightenment. At any given time she is doing this sort of thing for several other people and this continues wherever she goes. She says there are others. If you guys meet one, fasten your seat belt.

What did she charge you for no sex?

[svandamme]

supe, hasn't read your post there, so i wasn't talking about the "special cases" , i'm talking prostetution in general , frankly this muse stuff, it's not something i ever heard off, sounds a bit flaky to me , but i'll leave it at that, i don't know the woman , or anybody like it..

a muse , in my dictionary is an inspirational person , like this woman was the muse of this or that painter... no empathic or whatever hocus pocus.. just a woman who to that artist was an inspiration...

and then there is the ancient greek , the mythological muse

what you call muse, i've never heard off...

don't get me wrong , i don't diss the women in prostitution , i just find the whole industry a sad one to be in ,but i have very little understanding for the customers...
sure i understand they need to get off, just like monkeys in the woods, need to get off.
frankly , if mankind has evolved from the monkey state... i guess some haven't.

nothing wrong with monkey sex in a relationship don't get me wrong on that... but the inability to show restraint, to the point you'll pay somebody for the burden of helping you with primal urges ... that's beyond me.

[M.D. Holloway]

The chick maybe cool and she may know how to rock worlds and she may very well be able to tune into a guys thoughts but what she is doing is illegal when it involves a trade of sex for money. That just makes it wrong. Anything illegal is wrong and that is that. You can't pick what laws you wish to follow and ignore the others. That law might be ***** but it is still the law.

All that idealistic crap said, I would like to meet this chick! (for pure research purposes only - honest)

and a nice bj?

[M.D. Holloway]

You can bet she swallows!

Swallow costs extra.

[M.D. Holloway]

BUZZZZ

"When you have to pay for a deposit"

Alex, I'll take Call Girl Ecomonics for $1000 Please

Someone pass the Listerine to the muse.

[RoninLB]

It's nice to meet a chick that's good stuff. One of those who's head is like an opening into heaven. One of those that smell better the moister they become. One of those where you just want to stick your face in the middle of her hair and sniff big time. One of those that you just want to lick and eat as soon as possible. Desire is a turn on.. sport foking is another story.


all above is a prejudicial rant.

[Superman]

She swallows all right. I saw it. We had a number of meals together.

"Muse," like so many other labels and boxes we use to simplify our thinking, is not a complete description but it's clearly the best one. This woman goes from task to task. And by "task" what I mean is that she encounters people who are in need of inspiration and she provides that. In the form of conversation. She raises questions and provides considerations that shake things up, sometimes mightily, for the person she has encountered. It happens all the time. I saw it. Not just myself, but rather she usually has several inspirations going on simultaneously. Some involve sexual stuff, but many do not. Sometimes she whores and it's just that....whoring....exchanging sexual services for money and other considerations. The whole Dom/Sub thing is a specialty service she is apparently good at. And BTW, she calls herself a "Whore." No bones about that. But again, the really interesting part to me is this butterfly thing where she sees people who are needing to be kicked out of their circular thinking patterns and open up to a new paradigm. Taht's it. She is a paradigm-changer. When she is done with a student, things seem very different. This is her core activity. The whoring helps her support her muse mission.

As you might imagine, we had some amazing conversations. I wish they had been taped. Some was stream-of-consciousness stuff that sounded more like poetry than conversation, and most of it flew over my head. And yes, we talked about sex. That was, of course, also interesting.

And yeah Mike, it is illegal. And common.

[vash]

getting paid for sex.

isnt a porn actor ( i use the term "actor" very loosely) getting paid for sex? how do they avoid, jail time?

[svandamme]

Originally posted by vash
getting paid for sex.

isnt a porn actor ( i use the term "actor" very loosely) getting paid for sex? how do they avoid, jail time?

some court case.... freedom of expression ...
i think it went to the supreme court or something...