Tabs Tabs Tabs, Can You give a Guy a Chance to Respond?

[M.D. Holloway]

Tabs,
Part of me (the non-drugged up part!) is touched by your interest in my welfare. The other side of me (wasted on the happy pills!) is well, ya what was the question? Oh ya...wait, what was it again?

Seriously dude, I didn't dodge your question, I didn't see it. As for the happy pills. The mg I'm taken is pretty mild. As for personal development - don't know yet. Ya, maybe I should be talking to somebody but I am doing pretty good talking to my Wife and my ol Man and my Twin. The relationship I have with all three is as tight and honest as it can be. All have provide great insight and even better, they are sounding boards.

I won't ever tell you that "it is none of your business" when it deals trying to help me out. Thats what friends do for friends and I consider you a friend.

[the]

Darn, figured that was the answer, but watching tabs squirm was funny while it lasted.

[tabs]

Lubby your alive and well..Whew..I have this feeling about U that if you put some of your deductive reasoning to work on figuring out the causality of your feelings guided by the structure of some Thearpy it would be like putting Rapid Grow on your garden. U won't believe how much greener it will get.

Quiet honestly I never ask anybody to believe what I say, but think about it and see if it works and if it doesn't tell me I'm full of *****.

In this case Lubby don't believe anything I said, but go back and read Nostatus.

[livi]

Glad you are hanging in there, Mike.

Man, I hated most parts of my youth. Adult life has been so much better. But if I knew what it would feel like turning forty, with all the hassle and commitments, I would have stayed a kid..

Come to think of it - maybe that is my problem. I am still, in many aspects, a kid.

[slodave]

Over here, we have a saying....

I don't wanna grow up,
I'm a Toy's 'R Us kid.....

They had shirts that said this, I still wear mine!

[livi]

Where can I order one of those ? Would suit me perfectly!

[tabs]

Originally posted by the
Darn, figured that was the answer, but watching tabs squirm was funny while it lasted.

Your absolutely right..What right do I have to meddle in anybodies life, to be telling anybody anything.

Quiet simply I don't have a right to meddle in anybodies life. I can wish things for them though.

[slodave]

Originally posted by livi
Where can I order one of those ? Would suit me perfectly!

Sweden seems to have at least one Toys "R" Us toy store. I'm sure you can find it there, but it may be a little small for you

Dave

[svandamme]

Originally posted by slodave
Sweden seems to have at least one Toys "R" Us toy store. I'm sure you can find it there, but it may be a little small for you

Dave

Livi could perhaps wear one as a tank-top to go to the local Pink Flamingo branch

[slodave]

Originally posted by svandamme
Livi could perhaps wear one as a tank-top to go to the local Pink Flamingo branch

Only the San Francisco store carries the tank-top...

Dave

[svandamme]

Originally posted by slodave
Only the San Francisco store carries the tank-top...

Dave

an 8 year old sized T-shirt on Livi will have the same result...

[tabs]

We are children who in a supportive enviroment go to our parents to seek help for the problems that arise in our life. Our parents who have been there and done that help us by telling of their experiences and how they dealt with it. We are supposed to gain from their sage advice. This is the ideal.

That for many people that doesn't happen and the family reinforces terrible ***** sometimes. Many people will turn to Religion, because their parents let them down and God won't, they may turn to Thearpy to help them unravel that reinforced ball of *****. To get some resolution and clarity. Or they just go on living in the *****, coping the best they can.

Lubby I would be tellin U that U are one guy that doesn't need Thearpy, that your family gives you the support U need. What gives me pause are the panic attacks, that tells me U are not listening to something within yourself, and its giving U warning. That your the kinda guy that gets up and gets going no matter how he feels.

Let me give U a personal experience. I moved to LV in 2003, got into a lawsuit immediatly, won and got the check. Two weeks later I wake up one mornining completely scared, like I just wanted to get outa the house and run. I couldn't stand it anymore I had to do something different. What I had to realize was that my life in CA was over and I had to rebuild my life here in LV from scratch. I havn't had that feeling of panic since.

My advice is to start paying attention to your feelings, and start thinking about the causality of your feelings. Once U do your vision is gona get real sharp. Thearpy is like an outside/neutral/objective opinion, its a tool that gives structure to HELP U achieve clarity and resolution.

Do I really need to say anymore..

[svandamme]

Originally posted by tabs
We are children who in a supportive enviroment go to our parents to seek help for the problems that arise in our life. Our parents who have been there and done that help us by telling of their experiences and how they dealt with it. We are supposed to gain from their sage advice. This is the ideal.

That for many people that doesn't happen and the family reinforces terrible ***** sometimes. Many people will turn to Religion, because their parents let them down and God won't, they may turn to Thearpy to help them unravel that reinforced ball of *****. To get some resolution and clarity. Or they just go on living in the *****, coping the best they can.

wow tabs... that's would be a good post coming from anyone
but from you , i have to say it's exceptional...

won't happen often, but here goes:
+1

[livi]

Some excellent dressing advice from Dave and Stijn! I am on it!

[artplumber]

Originally posted by tabs

Let me give U a personal experience. I moved to LV in 2003, got into a lawsuit immediatly, won and got the check. ....

The advice is to sue someone successfully? In a new town?

[Dottore]

Originally posted by artplumber
The advice is to sue someone successfully? In a new town?

No silly! The advice is to sue someone successfully in a new town. Get the check. Get scared. And then get over it.

[tabs]

No you little ape monkeys...the point is to figure out what the fk is scaring U so U can get over it. Then U take the check on down to the crap table, put it on the Pass Line and roll the dice. Double or nothin.

[Dottore]

Originally posted by tabs
No you little ape monkeys...the point is to figure out what the fk is scaring U so U can get over it. Then U take the check on down to the crap table, put it on the Pass Line and roll the dice. Double or nothin.

yes the moral of the story is clear...just pulling your plonker, good sir...

[nostatic]

anxiety is usually repressed anger

[artplumber]

Originally posted by nostatic
anxiety is usually repressed anger

Don't tell him that!