Origin of the "3 Date Rule?"
 

Anyone know the origin of the "3 date rule"? I was discussing this with a potential ex-Mrs Fitzpatrick (this one's a doctor) and neither of us knew where that got started. I did some googling and came up empty.

I think it began with people as impatient as myself, who don't want to waste anymore money on a girl if there's not sex or a very good prospect of it by the 3rd date.

+1. If I don't get anywhere by the 3rd date, her number gets deleted.

I wouldn't delete the number. I'd just put her to the back of the line for those nights when you really have nothing better to do. It has worked for me and I got lucky once or twice after expecting nothing.

When I used to work In West Palm Beach there was a new guy there that had the perfect plan.

He did not date, he worked, a lot. He made very good money as an EI (Engineering Intern) and was on his way to being very succesful.

He came into work one day and told us how he had gotten blown by the hottest stripper in a champaign room.

A girl that worked with us told him he was a shallow pig. He then asked her how many dates it would take for her to blow her suiter. She said at least 5 dates. He then ran the math for her, he would have to spend over $400 and 5 dates to just get blown. He spent $250 and one evening and got blown by a stripper. He was way ahead of the game.

She hated him after that.

Did he get HIV?

Well, the first lay is really just legalized prostitution anyway. Why wait five dates for it?

Everyone thinks I'm nuts when I say that. If I take a girl out to dinner, spend $100 and then get laid, how is that different from giving her $100 to lay me?

Good story about the EI intern.

it might make her feel less cheap.

Who is to say the chick you took out on 5 dates is clean.


The only safe sex today is no sex.

I'm no Dr but the reports I've seen indicate that there is a very low presence of virus in saliva. The juicy juice is quite another story though.

Dr's care to comment?

If it takes less than 3 dates...she probably gives it up as easily for anyone...
I would hold out for some who sees it as a bit more special.

What, do you want a relationship or something?

Something like that.

You get food.

But the other way it's guaranteed you'll get laid. On a date, it's iffy.

This is why college is the best time of life. You don't have any money, a "date" can be sitting together at dinner in the dining hall, and it still counts towards the "three".

Well, if there are no open sores in the mouth and no open sores on the member in question then HIV transmission through saliva is very rare. I'm not sure I would risk it though :eek:

College is the best because often there are no dates required at all, perhaps just a drink or a dance at the bar. Or maybe even a drunken conversation at 4am after you left a different girls' room

+1. College is great for meeting girls, especially the ones just away from home and spreading their wings (and legs).

I almost remember...;-)...sigh...

You guys wait till the 3rd date?

Back in the day before marraige and kids I used to troll clubs with a female buddy who was looking for the same thing. Couple of drinks, a little back seat action and done.

If neither of us hooked up we always had each other.

We both got it out of our systems and our spouses don't complain about our experiences;)

Yes we used protection.

Spending $100 on dinner, movie, and drinks is a socialist wealth distribution plot.

So what is the earliest known reference to the 3-date rule? Who started it, where?

the only rule is there is no rule. if they want it, they'll do it before you even GET to go to dinner... if they don't, you may never... some cave in if you're persistent though so it's always worth a shot

I'd say the 3-date rule only works for full intercourse. It's perfectly reasonable to expect a B.J. on the second date. Maybe sooner. Especially in college. :)

So:

Strippers = Dirty STD Petri dish

College girls putting out to every guy at the kegger... every weekend = wholesome and clean.


Got it!!

For S&G, I added it to Wikipedia

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/3_Date_Rule

Very good!!

BINGO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Everybody is a stud on the internet. ;)

i get laid first, then take them to dinner to break it off so they cannot throw my stuff at me.

course, i am different, i am a ditry ol man, from Kirksville.

Why should taking someone out for dinner or a show automatically entitle you to sex? Just because you paid? What about all the times I pick up the bar bill when out with the guys? Does that mean I should get some skull at the end of the night?

You give to give, you don't give to get.

I thought the reason was that so you both start to have similair body chemistry, like eating same foods, snacking same foods, light kissing, so when you do have sex you both have a familair sense of smells from each other. I have been wrong before this one won't matter... flame suit on!!

Pizza: $10.00
Porno rental: $10.00
Beating off: $0
Not having to put up with her crap the next day: priceless

Is there a three month rule?

You know, like when the woman has invested enough to know you are not the one she is going to marry so she cuts you loose no matter how good the sex and friendship was?


What does a gushing of tears and ; "no I don't love you"......... really mean?

Double post

As you guys get more experience, you'll learn the first rule of Compensated Sex:

You don't pay the woman to do you.
You pay the woman to not be there the next morning.

been there

did thathttp://www.pelicanparts.com/support/smileys/pub.gif http://www.pelicanparts.com/support/.../smileysex.gif

Right on; tech is the only one here that really gets it.

Because you don't go out with women to have fun. You go out with women to get pussy. You go out with the guys to get wasted and just have fun.

Anyways, now, I've adapted a bit more to the game. Instead of taking girls out to dinner, I get taken out. Instead of buying them clothes, they buy me clothes:) Works out much better. I'm happy, I make them happy, and I have more money to put in the bank. They've been doing it to guys for years, with the whole idea that they shouldn't have to pay for anything, since they are women, while still managing to complain loudly about equal rights and assert how independent they are. Time for a change, buy ME some **** for once.