When You think maybe it's time. Eject! Eject! Eject!
Life's to short for both of you.

Save the energy for the right one.

Heaven & Earth may crumble. You and I agree. Dead smack on!

Usually between 7:30 and 9:00 am

-e.

You need to have a talk with her - tell her what you feel or sense and ask if she feels that way. See if you can work out whatever is going on. It could be she got some bad news and didn't tell you & it is affecting her.

Or she could have a new BF...

That's why you do it at her place. You always have to leave to go back home once the nap is over.

Beat-a the feet-a

Todd :)

If this is still happening...and you have no backup, why not milk it a while longer?

It's time to walk when you let yourself into her condo late one night, quietly walk up the stairs with the lights off to slip into bed without waking her and hearing a male voice in the dark say:
DEAR, I THINK SOMEONES WALKING AROUND DOWNSTAIRS!!!!!!

Then, it's time.........

+1

Oh geez, I plus 1ed on The....

You guys are more than likely right!

hmmmm, I thought she was going to be the one and things just stopped being "give and take" during arguments. I kept thinking at those times, OMG, she sounds just like my EX! WTF??? they even used similar wording. Strange ... It made me think that maybe I'm doing something that affects women in a similar fashion ... lolo ...

I'm gonna do what RWebb suggested since that's the way I am. One last talk.

Yep, tang is gonna have to get put back on my list of things to do ;)
Wish there wasn't snow up to knees or I'd be driving my love :(

Thanks everybody !! :)

note: hopefully others will find some nuggets here for themselves too :)

The percentage of couples that actually end up in good marriages is very small. It's pretty obvious when you're in one of them and therefore, also when you're not.

Bang and walk.

word........

You mean when you get married?:D

When you ask a bunch of strangers about about it online, I'd say it's time. As was said previously, "when there is doubt, there is no doubt". Pretty sure that's a quote from DeNiro in Heat, but it's perfect to describe relationships. Never had a doubt with my wife, it took maybe 3 days together to realize that she was it for me. 2 1/2 of those days were spent questioning if this was really happening. 5 great years later, not a single regret.

I've never met the Sapp, but I wouldn't go so far as to call him a Stranger?
Talk to him just about every friggin' day!!!!
:)

You know what I mean. I consider you all friends, but wouldn't recognize you on the street. Unless you were driving that sweet Arena Red 993TT (best color by the way).

I used to be in the "you know it immediately" camp, but my current relationship has changed my perspective. I took it slow with this one and continued to date other women. I didn't think that she was "the one," but it was fun and interesting. We actually quit dating after 2 months because she had some old baggage that bugged me. A couple weeks later she initiated contact and we started seeing each other again, but I was still seeing other people, taking it slow, and not committing to anyone.

We went away for a week over xmas and everything really clicked. I still wasn't sure she was "the one" but I wasn't really interested in seeing anyone else. Now a month after that, I'm thinking she might be the one. The short story is, I don't think you necessarily know out of the gate. Some women have to grow on you, and you need to come to appreciate what they bring to the relationship.

Oh, and the sex as gotten better and better. +1000 on the sex aspect. If *you* are really into sex and she is lukewarm, move along. I've found out the hard way that people can be wired very differently wrt sex drive. If you like it a lot, you better find a partner that likes it a lot. Otherwise you are doomed as a couple.

;)

What kind of human doesn't like sex *a lot*?

If your chick doesn't like sex, she needs to go, cause she's probably an alien or a spy or something...

PS... the Arena Red 993TT might just be my favorite car on here. Can I have it when you are done with it?

Matt & Ramm have made my day ;) Thanks guys!

Two replies:
Recognizing people: truth is I have a hard time recognizing people I do know? yikes!

Sex: There's different levels of dating (for guys). Some levels involve receiving sex at the very first opportunity, no sex, no more dates. Others can be more patient, but this comes with age.

Now as a father of 4 daughters, there's definately no sex for women until marriage!

hmm, well, that would cover two ex-wives...