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Originally Posted by DARISC
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You know lottsa atheists?! What dark places you be hangin in?
The atheists I've known/know over the years were/are only vocal when someone else starts a conversation they care to join in on, or when confronted by someone trying to convince them to become a believer. Come to think of it, I've known a number of people for years before even finding out they were atheists.
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Dark places? Many of my coworkers are atheists. Most give it little thought. Many of my coworkers are religious. They similarly give it little thought. I wouldn't know one from the other without asking. Both tend to be pretty rational people, and are capable of civil, enlightening discussion on the topic.
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In either of those two scenarios the spectrum of response tones ranges from "Oh, I respect your beliefs but they aren't mine, thank you" (and generally could care less whether the believer respects their non/disbelief or not) to the less genteel "I think you're nuckin' futs!" (which can be a response meant to egg the believer on just for the fun of it, or an expression of genuine amazement that anyone could believe what the beliver believes).
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The vast majority of atheists and theists will respond per your first example, at least in my experience. It's the irrational ones, with an emotional investment in the topic, that like to respond in the manner of your latter example. Like stuart, who leans decidedly towards "egging on just for the fun of it" for his motivation.
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Of course the atheist will question the basis of theistic beliefs when theism is being discussed; and those beliefs may be ridiculed if the atheist feels harangued by a believer (usually to no avail, of course).
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It goes both ways.
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Originally Posted by DARISC
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But I've never witnessed an atheist initiating a confrontation with a believer wherein the atheist attempts to convince the believer to become an atheist. Why would they even care to do that? I don't know a single evangelical atheist.
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I suppose none of really "know" stuart, so you may be technically correct. His behavior on this forum is the epitomy of "evangilical atheism", however. He has established his position rather securely as such. He has a rather large emotional investment in his atheism that comes through in his posting.
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Maybe, I don't know, there are cases of "nouveau atheists", who aren't yet all that deeply convinced about their new convictions of disbelief, who get argumentative with believers in an unconscious attempt to find out what they really do believe or disbelieve (closet agnostics?), maybe a cry for help coming back into the fold? Actually, I do know two people who foresook their belief systems for atheism but later returned to them.
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I'm sure there is this type out there who have gone both ways. Nothing worse than a freshly "born again" evangelist espousing either his religion or his atheism. I think both use their enthusiasm as much to convince themselves as they do to convince others. Neither is thinking rationally.
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Originally Posted by DARISC
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The ones I've known don't have a condescending attitude (I've known a lot of believers who definitely do - perhaps the majority of them).
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Interesting. I have met any number of atheists who carry a very condescending attitude towards believers. These atheists love to flaunt their "intellectual superiority" ans such over the po', simple, faithful redneck hicks of the world. Granted, I have met just as many pious individuals of faith, who lord themselves over others.
Both are the exception, however. Like I said above, most folks I meet don't wear this stuff out on their shirtsleeves. You have to ask to find out where they stand. It's the folks you don't have to ask, on both sides, that are the problem. The ones who just find a way to bring it up in almost any conversation, and do so not to enlighten, but to goad. Those with a huge emotional investment in one side or the other, like stuart. The folks that can't approach the topic rationally.
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Personally, I don't believe that "faith" need be, by definition, rational; it's more an extremely personal concept formed by the heart and soul (dare I say emotions?) rather than by reasoned analysis..
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I would agree, to the point of excluding reasoned analysis. Many have arrived at their faith through just such analysis.