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When lady luck smiles
So i've just spent the last two days in bed with a woman i have not seen in 25 years....
She and i went to school from Kindergarten to 8th grade together. Unbeknownst to me, she harbored a crush on me the whole time, and never let on. The last time i saw her was our 8th grade graduation ceremony, in which she said she sat next to me(i don't remember one way or another) I never even noticed her back then, classic case of the boy not even knowing the girl is alive. She literally dropped into my lap out of the blue the other day with a email message titled, "I have been dreaming of you for my whole life." I don't have any idea how she got my email address, i did not ask. I was sufficiently flattered that i did not feel any need to pry. She is recently separated after 17 years of marriage (she has one 17 yo daughter, and says she can count on one hand the number of men she's been with in her life). As for myself, i just jettisoned my crazy South American girlfriend a few months back- so the timing was perfect. Don't you love it when the stars all line up just right? Needless to say it was a GOOD 2 days. Anyway, this girl is obviously into me big time, but i don't think a serious LTR is what i want at all. However, there is no way in hell i want to hurt this girl. Any advice? PS: Yes, she is hot. No, i am not posting pix. 
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no pcs? it didn't happen....
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no pix no advice
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com'on Sniper - you should know by now that the price of admission (or advise in your case) is a pic
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No pix, no way.
Perhaps once all is said and done, however it all ends up. If it helps any, she reminds me of Neve Cambell from "Scream." Last edited by m21sniper; 04-16-2009 at 12:08 PM.. |
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Friquen liar......
 You couldn't have been working on her for 48 hours unless you're a goofy phuquer that jumps out of bed to reply to one of my insanely interesting threads. What did you say to her. "Hey baby, wait up, powder your nose for a minute or two. I've got to reply to my buddy Bob's Pellican thread". Add a reply to my stuff and jump back in headfirst... Yep!  . Count and see how many threads in the last 48 hours you have replied too. ~68 as I count. WTF? I will never touch your keyboard.You probably told her you were on a secret mission and had to follow up on intel and she would just have to keep her legs closed for minute...Ha! Just messing with you.... What other things has she uttered in your ear while you were doing your biz Hey Snipe...your my hun with the gun.... 
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I said the last 2 days, not the last 48 hours. (maybe when i was 20 i could do 48 hours with some rests in between)
I met her yesterday at 11am, and she left today around noonish. That's yesterday- and today- in bed. Check da records. :-P Timeline established to your satisfaction now?
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By banging her knowing that she wanted a LTR and you wanted nothing of the sort, you already hurt her. Now it is just a matter of how much, based on how much longer you lead her on, unless you were upfront from the start that you didn't want anything out of it. It will probably still hurt, but at least you were honest.
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Post a fake pic then.
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neve campbell? ouchie. hot enough in my mind's eye.
i would be honest to her. this isnt the first rodeo for either of you. exchange relationship expectations right away. she may be looking for a LTR. but she banged you right away, so maybe not.
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Do you have a job? How did you happen to pull that off? She unemployed too?  You needed to tell the little lady that you had official business last night, ditched her and attended one of the tea parties. What in the world are you thinking in a paroles time like this? Gad! I demand a photo or else!
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I'm out on comp right now on account of being ran over by a muslim on the job the week before xmas. She is a fairly new realtor who largely makes her own hours. We did plan the meeting a few days in advance, so i assume she did some schedule shuffling.
We started out by going back to our alma matter and getting a tour of the school where we both spent 9 years of our life togehter. Sadly not a single teacher that we had was still there. (It has been 25+ years) I introduced her to the faculty as my fiancee' while looking right at her, i could tell right away by her smile that there was romantic interest. After that i took her to lunch and we had a few drinks. After some conversation/flirting it became obvious what we both wanted, so we went back to my place. No can do on the pix man, it would be totally wrong at this point in time. |
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Let me get this straight. She has been dreaming of you her whole life. Just now separates from her husband and magically gets your email address and you don't think she has a mental problem?
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It was playful flirting to judge her interest level Moses. She got that i think.
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 All's fair. She could go back to her husband next week for all we know. My advice: Relax and enjoy. Just be upfront that you don't want a serious thing. She's a big girl and can decide what she wants to do.
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