It's quite nuanced, too.

llantas

Tabs, exactly what he said was




Red-beard, I'd like to take this moment to tell you that you're officially an a**hole in my book.
My wife and I were together for ten years, married for five. Although I'm the idiot that filed for divorce, it's not what I wanted. In February my wife begged me to let her stay, and I was going to. But due to misinformation I made her leave.
Ten years is better than a quarter of my life that were were together, and she's a very special woman. Without her, I would not be who I am. She pulled me out of the gutter, and she's the only person in my life evrer to do anything meaningful for me.

You sound much like the guy telling me to "get over it" while trying get with her before the divorce was even filed for!

Go through what I've been through int he last year. Then you can say that to me. Till then, piss off.

Originally Posted by red-beard
Obsession. I think you need some help. Please, in all seriousness, get some help.

Dear Red there is nothing that modern shrinkdome can do for me that has not been done. You forget that I have had 2 friends that have been in the biz for a long long time. One who is now passed was the co/founder of the Fuller Seminary Graduate School of Shrinkdome and the second is a prof and PhD candidate advisor in shrinkdome for a university in SO CA. The latter has told me as he laughed to tell you all that he said , "Tabbsy you are one twisted mutherfker." I said, "Thank You, everything that I am, I owe to you Doc."