I hate being an adult

[wreckersteve]

The day after Christmas I to tell my 7 yr old son his mom was moving out.
3 weeks ago I had to tell him we are holding him back in 2nd grade.
I just had to give his dog away. I hate being an adult.

[Oh Haha]

Yep, it sure as he!! sucks somedays.

Take the opportunity during these times to remind him how much you love him.

Hang in there, my friend.

[Aerkuld]

You sound like a good Dad.
He will thank you one day, take my word for it.

[Drdogface]

Dunno why you had to give his dog away...likely a good reason. My mother gave my dog away without even telling me she was doing it. One morning when I was getting dressed for school a guy showed up and took my dog.

Not trying to hi jack this painful thread but if there is ANY way to keep the dog....for his sake please do it. I'm sure you are a great Dad...just this thing must be very hard.

[rnln]

you still lucky you have your son with you.

[livi]

Your post shines with empathy. Safe to say thats a reflexion on how your son looks upon his dad too. Children are the best character witnesses. What ever you need to do and what ever happens, your love and affection will not escape your sons senses. Good man.

[Rick V]

If the hard decisions didn't bother you, there would be a problem. I also notice that you are feeling the stress of having to tell your son these things and not the impact they have on you. Where I come from that is what a good parent is all about. (well part of it)
Chin up, and carry on, that is all any of us can do.

[Rot 911]

Sounds like a tough year for both you and your son. But hang in there, you still have each other!

[asphaltgambler]

Use this as a real opportunity to educate (on his level) about life and that there are times when things just don't work out like we want them to. But to still strive to do better and learn from dissapointment. In the end you have each other and sometimes that's enough............

[afterburn 549]

I do not know your situation just will say what I think I know
+1 on all the above
In most schools any more here are ALL sorts of programs so kids do not have to repeat. I mean ALL sorts of programs.
Your case may be different but would check.
Being held back can be a emotional issue with kids

[RPKESQ]

As long as you are trying your best for your son, that is enough. Make sure all your decisions are based on facts and not emotions. Don't let your problems drive poor decisions concerning your son. Think hard first, then act.

Best of luck, I'm rootin' for you and your son.

[Instrument 41]

I feel for you,I just wish, every day, that I had my son to be able to say those things to.....You sir are a very fortunate man.

[wreckersteve]

They had wanted to hold him back last year and we were gaining fround with hard work and a tutor. But the breakup put us back. I just dont want him to strugle and hate school. The school has been alot of help. He was 1 of the youngest so now he will be the oldest. Not by much. He seems to be adjusting to it all. He really suprises me daily with how strong he is.

His egg donor( I love to use that phrase) lives close and sees him a good bit. But I try to make the time with him count. Bike ride and a car show tonight. Now he just got out od the shower and ready for bed.

[Oh Haha]

Hoping for the best for you.


I'm in charge tonight while mom is working and neither one of the kids feels like behaving. My son(5.5) sat at the table for nearly 3 hours to finish his supper as he "doesn't like cheese like that on his pizza". UUUuggghhhhhh.

Right now, my daughter(3) is supposed to be laying down "relaxing", not closing her eyes as she "sleeps with her eyes open, Daddy." Son is playing with his trains making all kinds of racket thus distracting ssaid daughter from "relaxing".

Arrgghh. I love my kids more than the entire universe but somedays they just wear me out.

Right now, while I type they are jumping on our bed.


Cherish each day with your son and build a solid relationship.

[fastfredracing]

Hey wrecker steve, where are you located at in the burgh? I used to know a guy named Steve, who had tow trucks, and had a hankering for german cars, from Zelienople, is that you???
Hang in there buddy, being an adult does suck it sometimes. Just do the best you can for your family, and you will be o.k. I am sure that when your boy grows up , he will understand that you did your best in challenging times. At least the " egg donor didn't take the kid, and you two still have each other. I think a young man needs a father in his life more than anything.

[wreckersteve]

Not me Fred. I ;ive near the Airport. Just drove wreckers, never owned.

My parents got divorce when i was young. the mist horriable thing for a child. They were nasty and used the kids for pawns. I am doing my best to make it better for him My tongue is numb from biting it.