Not sure why I'm relating this story but...

While I was in the Marine Corps, my squadron was deployed to Thailand for a few weeks. One of my Marines "announced" he was heading out to the 'ville to get a BJ from one of the local hookers. After being there for about a week, it seems he'd made this a part of his daily ritual.

Knowing he was married, I asked him, "What would your wife think of you screwing around on her?" His response was, "It's not like I'm having sex...it's just a BJ!" I then asked him, "How would you feel if you found out your wife was "just giving a BJ" to another man?" Stopped him dead in his tracks.

To the OP, dude, if you have to ask, the answer should be obvious. Let this one remain in your memory. DO NOT pursue it any further.

Randy

Funny this timing. A f..k buddy was telling me the other day over the phone how she found out her husband was Googling an old friend of his and then posted on a forum about wanting to get in touch with his old f..k friend.

She suggested we get together for drinks since it's been a few months since we "met up."

I wouldn't contact her directly. What might be socially acceptable would be to friend her on Facebook.

common old story for me can be reduced to "Why didn't you want to stay with me?"

Sport fxxking isn't for the faint of heart.
You have to be committed to the 'sport' side of it.

Thanks for some interesting responses.. and a few chuckles. I really didn't expect that many or it to carry over..

Guess I was kind of down when I posted that and didn't flesh it out enough?

Why didn't I try to get her away originally?.. I made what was a verbal contract and promise before going into it back then, just as I did with my present relationship. I keep my word regardless of what happens or what I may be accused of (respectively). I had no intention or expectation of anything other catching up with someone I considered an old friend, albeit a formerly close one. When I wrote that, maybe I was thinking of some sort of closure that everything works out for the best no matter what, as many of you mentioned? As far as the wife goes.. no matter what I say she just refuses to leave... but, that's a whole nother thread....

In reflection, yes, probably best to drop the whole idea and just leave things where they are. At least that way I've got some good memories. When the Alzheimer's kicks in, it's the older ones that last the longest.

There was a reason that your f*** buddy never became more - a little voice inside your head back tehn said 'nope, just good for a push-push is all' but as time goes by and reason fades we ask 'why not?" Problem is, we never remember why we didn't carry through we just remember the good stuff and forget the other stuff.

If you decide to nail this peg it will most likely be pretty good at the time but the minute after to squeeze out the last drop of spooge you will look at the wrinkles on her face that were never there, smell her breath which won't be as sweet as it was and notice that there aren't the curves of the past. Her skin won't feel as soft and her muscles won't feel as tight. You will be left with a feeling of emptiness and remorse that you have not known and all the while you will think "Why didn't I just rub one out to the memory of her instead of trying to relive a past that was a gift from the gods?"

Well, if you want her to leave, I may have to change my vote on what to do . . .

seeing as to how you want her to leave, email her. then ask your wife if she'd a like a threesome with you and another woman ;)