The OP was not "picking on" Gogar.

The other way around.

OP just defended himself.

Funny how perspective can be spun around if you want it to be.

Glad you were able to resolve the dispute amicably. You were right - the neighbor should have talked to you about the problem and tried to resolve the issue instead of attacking. See what happens when certain males are kitty cat whipped? smh

Thanks for posting this story and for the followup. Life has a lot of twists and turns. Navigating through those is what we all do. This community is about shared experiences.