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I'm sure you did my moniker justice!:cool: |
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Yea, seriously. Its funny to me that he never came back...after taking all this "advice" ;) |
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Take the Porsche. Pull some of the interior pieces out, put the spare tire on it, get a few little pieces of vinyl wrap that looks like primer paint and stick it on the car take her out in it, Tell her that you got a great deal on it and it's a fixer upper. Then if it goes well, before each time she sees it "fix" part of the car and she'll think that your a handy guy and that you have skills.
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Back to the original poster's quesry....which car? Whichever was in the driveway and has a full tank. Neither one is gonna impress her. Sorry, but very few women are gonna be impressed one way or another with either. Now a new Bentley or Benz, maybe. But a Jap SUV or old Pcar?....nah.
But I did read somewhere that women are more inpressed that the car is clean inside and out more thanwhat it is. YMMV |
Speeder hit the nail on the head.
Around here, as in most places, the girls know exactly what a new car looks like. An 85 930 will only make them feel sorry for you. I'd take the rodeo - at least you don't look like you are trying a little too hard. I am glad I met my wife when all I owned was a bicycle. :) G |
Does it really matter what she thinks?
Geez.........time to turn in your man card. You do things because that is who YOU are - not who you want HER to perceive you as. Get your mojo on and let the chips fall where they may..... <iframe width="853" height="480" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/epBnjoQCKpo" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> |
Or you could take the Rodeo....if that's who you are.....
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OR here is a different spin. Take the 930. Dependent on her reaction, you can kind of feel her out. A) she will be the type that doesn't give a crap, which could be good or bad. B) she will and either be thrilled because it is a Porsche and a gold digger (I find most girls don't know a lot about Porsches and what is worth a lot and which aren't) and doesn't know anything about Porsches or cars in general OR be turned off because its old and because she doesn't know a lot about Porsches. Or you may hit the jackpot, C) a girl who is thrilled it is a 930 and starts asking you all about the car. The engine, what you did to the car, if you are the original owner, etc. You can tell if she was just interested in the car or if she is interested in cars in general. Then you would know you have a common passion.
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Baz, I agree with you but he can use it to see how she reacts to it, not necessarily care what the outcome is. Use it as an assessment tool. :)
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I'm tired after a long bike ride and not gonna read thru the dreck.....has anyone posted the "Rodeo Date Joke"?
I'm still trying to get Tweez to let me move in and support me, so.....I can't tooo big a pig.... |
Don't sell yourself short. ;)
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I have to agree with my man Speeder. Porsche is probably the absolute last car I would ever take on a first date. It might actually be embarrassing..... |
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I'd be much more concerned with making the wrong impression on some total catch of a chick. It is unfortunate that most people do not see a Porsche driver as some interesting, adventurous motor racing fan. They see him as tool who is looking for attention. I own them in spite of the image. It's not a good image. :cool: |
I would just drive whichever I feel like at the momment walking into he garage, without thinking about the girl.
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Most Porsche owners are dicks.......I agree.
Doesn't mean you change who YOU are. Drive 'em! |
You are seriously deluded if you think a girl (other than trailer trash) will be impressed or think you are loaded if you pull up in a 30 year old Porsche. C'mon now, a loaded new Camry is more expensive. Drive whatever you want, that reflects who you are and that is always the best first impression unless you are a total D-bag and know it.
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Try a Cobra replica that is in all primer. I even let her drive. We have been married 12 years as of last december. Ya never know. :)
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But the stereotype is very real with women. They judge the hell out of any perceived display of insecurity or compensating/trying too hard. I've talked to a couple of random strangers driving new 991s lately who were parking the car, just want to know how they like it, etc., they could not have been cooler. Friendly, not dicks at all. I thought one guy was going to throw me the keys. :) |
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I remember my first Ferrari, a red 1961 cabriolet. However, I remember better the winter we repainted it and I drove a rusty old 1957 Dodge 4 door that I bought for $40.00. That was one of the best years for my love life and I never even mentioned my snazzy FIAT. Focus on your girl, not the car. Tweezer has very good advice.
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First date. Take the Porsche?
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My other belief in relationships is be who you are from the beginning. A man who knows all my faults and weaknesses from the beginning and falls in love with me despite of them? Well, he is gonna be a keeper. And as such, I would want the man to do the same. I would respect a male chauvinist pig more than a male chauvinist pig that pretended not to be. Long story short, drive what car you want to drive. |
Thank goodness for Tweeze to give this thread some closure. Hers was the best advice. Asking a woman about a woman's point of view....makes sense to me.:):)
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Present company excluded, of course, on the comment "most Porsche owners are dicks."
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Autonomy is where it's at. Keeps things interesting. She has her things, I have my things, and we have our things... rjp EDIT- oh, and that means I don't need to listen to silly crap she wants to do to her car, and I don't need to spend money or time on it. It also means in high risk areas, we take her transportation appliance and my stuff stays home, safe. |
One more thing too- the car hobby is best understood by other car people. In the real world, I don't want to advertise I'm into cars.
Ever see those Corvette dorks who must wear all the swag? or the Hillibilles with Ford swag head to toe? Would you ever do up your entire house with car garbage? I don't. It's a private hobby. I raise an eyebrow on people who do that - even if I like their work.. rjp |
Jeezus, if the OP isn't a basket case by now...
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First date. Take the Porsche?
OP conducting a social experiment? You guys getting paid for your participation? ;)
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If I were him and read this thread - I'd have taken a CAB! :D
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With that said I don't give a **** what she thinks about my car. I used to drive a beat up rusty 69 Bug on dates now and then when I had a new Vette and a trick 67 Camaro in the garage. She don't like it? She can walk. People in general these days (men and women alike) are pretty superficial and somewhat dim and don't see value in nostalgia. Opinions come from idiot friends, the TV and anything pop related. THey don't appreciate the work that goes into something like art, or a vintage car. I just "yeah yeah" until I get my way, then once hooked, we take my car, like it or not. To hell with what your GF's and idiot boy-friends think about it. They can KMA- they are usually morons who only understand the latest crap they see on TV or FB. rjp |
PS I'll make her ride in a ElCamino or an IROC Camaro if she don't like it too bad... :)
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