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some students can't think...
Just had a young lady leave my office... she's a new student (our fall half term just started yesterday) and has never been in college before.
She heard we offer online classes, and has registered for 3 of them. Her only computing devices are an old Android phone with cracked screen and a Nook tablet.... neither device has a browser that works with the exam/testing engine in our course management system, and of course, neither will have an office suite so she can write and submit papers. But at least she got registered in time to collect financial aid for the term. :rolleyes: |
People need to be given the tools to succeed, and they need the personal ambition to take those tools and make something of themselves. It sounds like this woman had a little of both but not enough of either.
My oldest son is now safely ensconced at a private liberal arts college that will coddle him as he learns to stand on his own. It is quite demanding, but there are enough resources available that if he works hard and pays attention he can't help but succeed. But about two years ago he somehow managed to flunk high school chemistry. Visions of not graduating from high school, not going to college, and a life spent digging ditches danced before our eyes for a few days before my wife characteristically took charge and figured out a solution. She got him into a summer program that I could drop him off at on my way in to work and she could pick him up. That summer I had to roust him from bed at about 6 am each morning, get us some breakfast and drop him off at school before 7 am. It was hard for both of us. There were days I was tempted to skip a day and not bother taking him to school. There were days he begged to sleep in and enjoy his summer. But in the end he was the only kid who showed up every day, did his homework and finished the course with a good grade. As the summer wore on, he commented that all the other kids seemed to come from the inner city and had a lot of problems. They didn't attend class every day, didn't do their homework, and seemed poised to flunk summer school too. He commented to me somewhat contemptuously one day that the other kids didn't seem to try and didn't even go to class regularly. I thought of the effort it took for us to get going every morning and just imagined how tempting it must be for the inner city kids who didn't have parents who supported and pushed them to sleep in for "just one day". And how tempting it would be to say that to themselves each morning until they were hopelessly behind again. I quoted the famous line from the Great Gatsby (another advantage of having educated parents is constant lectures with literary references) and told Alex that he should remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that he had. I told him that probably none of the other kids had a father who woke them up in the morning, got them breakfast and then delivered them to school in a shiny red Audi. He admitted that they all had to make their way to school on the city bus. Some of those kids will eventually succeed simply because of their native talents and internal drive. They'll figure out the system on their own and make it. But more would make it if they simply had someone there to show them how it is done and give them a little push to do it. The woman in the story probably could make it. The systems seem all in place for her to succeed - on line learning, financial aid, and a nice local community college. But all of that is going to waste because she is lacking the common sense to put the front end and back end of on line coursework together, and she doesn't have anyone to show her the way. Maybe she'll figure it out and come back for the second semester, armed with a used laptop. More than like this was her one effort and since she failed once she'll figure she would fail again, so she won't try. To bring this story full circle and not make a short point too much longer, Alex isn't much different than that woman. And in fact I'm not either. In not much different circumstances, I could be that woman, staring at you with vacant eyes, wondering why my Nook can connect me to the internet but you're telling me it won't talk to the school's computers. |
future stripper at the jack shack
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Unfortunately, not everyone has any understanding of technology. Everything is being made to be so user friendly that John Q Public expects it just do what they need when they turn it on. I suspect that no one ever taught her about computers and the only thing she's ever used is the phone. Some of us might be a tad too quick to judge. She may surprise you and become a quick study of the technology once its explained to her.
I sure hope the OP isn't her guidance counselor. |
She's smart enough to know where the gravy train starts. That's all the govt wants!
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Seems like a bunch of 1/2 empty glasses here.
Good on her for applying, being accepted, registering and trying to better herself I say. |
They have computers at the library and I'm sure she can pick up a used computer for almost nothing (laptops even).
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No kidding... Don't you guys have a computer lab somewhere on campus he can go?
And in my experience, school quiz and online programs are stuck in the stone age, most don't work well on computers, and are marginal at best on any sort of tablet. It's not totally her fault that the school IT hasn't caught up with technology! |
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That's my complaint. The system sets people like this up to fail and creates a financial incentive to make her fail. There's enough incentive in the system for people to guide her through the loan application process and get her registered for class. Her student loans go through and they all get paid. But there's no check in the system to make sure she qualifies to complete her classes - does she have the basic education level necessary to pass the class, does she have access to the right computer system to complete the course? The system should be designed so that she doesn't get the student loan until she demonstrates that she has the basic tools for success. And yes, you can use student loans to buy computers for on line classes. Or she can work at a library where there is free computer access, or maybe the school has computer labs. But this is the sort of thing that a well designed system should have sorted out [I]before[I] she got the loan and before classes started. At best she's already two days behind before she even starts and all that money and good intentions will go to waste. |
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Guys, I believe the young lady has signed up for an online, short semester, course. I doubt she'll be taking an online course from the campus computer lab, although it would be available to her. It was an absolute necessity for me to have access to a computer to complete course work assigned for on campus classes.
I took one online course, it was very difficult not to procrastinate, and I can't recall whether I passed or failed. In my experience, putting my rear in a seat in the classroom was the only way I could have achieved what I did. Having taken a 7 year leave of absence from my academic studies, I enrolled, but as a condition, was on academic probation. It was a difficult transition. I had to teach myself how to study. I remember registering for statistics my first semester back. My family thought I was nuts for doing so. They were right, it was a nightmare, a total struggle because I couldn't remember what tools I needed, aka formulas, to succeed. I spent nearly half the semester in the math lab, every morning I had class, I was there. A 50 at midterm, but I did my home work, and aced the final. Made a C. It was the only C in 6 semesters. Made a 3.0 that semester. The rest was a breeze, 5 straight dean's lists, 4 of which were under an academic scholarship. I had my rear in that chair nearly everyday. I quit buying books altogether after the 3rd semester. I do remember cutting a few times, but one when I didn't was when my father asked if I would cut so we could go fishing with my uncle in Grand Isle, La. I might have missed 5 class days in 3 years, one was for a family funeral. I think online classes should be reserved for those who work full time, or are single parents. A young lady having never been in college, taking an online course is a recipe for disaster. |
My wife works at a local university. ANYONE that wants to go to work there or go to school there has to go to the web site and set up a user ID and then look for the job. If you can't use a web site you are too stupid to work or enroll there.
People still walk into the HR department looking for the paper forms to apply for a job. They just point them to a computer kiosk. One man said he "does not DO computers" and was furious that he could not file a paper application. They had to call campus police to escort him out. |
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And by the way, I had never been to college or away from home. Still didn't have a computer by the time I graduated. Used the computer lab. Found an apartment complex that gave me a discount based on my GPA and had a computer you could use for an hourly rate. I was poor compared to my peers but I did it. And I did it with a higher GPA, honors, and awards. There is always a way. Like I said, if someone doesn't shoot her down before she even makes it out of the gate, she can do it too.
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Finding an old computer for a few bills isn't that hard. Seems she was looking for a "free" tablet or computer from the school. |
I was at a job site this morning and a crew showed up to lay block. I couldn't help but think to myself as I looked at their faces....these are the faces of the kids who either goofed off in school or skipped class.
That said - I respect them for working in a trade - even if it is mostly labor. There will always be those who use school as a platform to reach for the stars...and those who simply "endure" it. BTW - I do my best to mentor young folks as much as possible....that's about all you can do....the rest is really up to them. |
Generally, tuition includes fees allowing access to computer labs, gym, libraries, etc... I tried to get around those fees, but had to pay them even if I didn't utilize the service offered. In other words, it's a bundle.
What I see is someone who is looking for the easier, softer way, at the tax payers expense. |
Who's to say she doesn't have the means to buy a computer? I don't believe the OP said she couldn't afford one. Lots of assumptions here. Just because she doesn't have what's required now doesn't mean she doesn't have the ability to get it.
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Through my years of nursing, I found it very surprising the ones who took advantage of welfare healthcare and those who did not. That perspective, in addition to my own experience of when people who gave me the benefit of the doubt, makes me lean towards the other side with the limited amount of information given in this post. So shoot me... |
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